Texting Crush

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So this is not really autism related(though my nervousness may be due to my aspergers) but I just feel comfortable posting stuff here. Theres this girl I like at my residence but I am too shy/scared to talk to her(only have succesfully done so a few times when we happened to be at same table, but I am still really nervous to actually approach her). I was thinking of texting her over Facebook instead to start off, is that ok, or creepy? Should i first ask for her permission to text her? This all kind of sounds weird since we are in the same building, but figured I might as well ask just in case.

In short: What do you guys think of texting your crush who you don't know well?

I would just try to get better at talking in person first, at least until/if she starts to greet you whenever you see each other, whether it’s just waving or saying hi or something small. It’s possible she may still reciprocate without that, but getting a rapport in person clears the air of most of the awkwardness when friending people on social media.