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31 Oct 2018, 9:49 pm

I think I’m over my crush, but I wish we could be friends. I still want to go to the healthcare center to see people I miss, they were a part of my life for 6 weeks, I had more fun in the physical therapy room.



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02 Nov 2018, 2:56 pm

I wish i could get rid of the feeling myself, lasted several weeks now, the feeling gets stronger the closer in proximity i am with her but for some reason she has stopped eye contact in almost every situation either because she is not remotely interested or has more important things on her mind. I like to think it's gone but still have dreams about her - uncontrollable ones, so its probably just what my mind wants and its hard to let go.



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03 Nov 2018, 7:53 pm

Congrats! That's gotta be a good feeling.

I've had a handful or so of intense crushes in my life. The last one was a couple years ago. It's faded significantly, but I'm not completely over it. I'm pretty sure I'm just one of those autistics who's never really fully over a major crush until the next one happens. In some ways it's kind of annoying that I haven't had a new crush in a couple years as I find myself still thinking about the last one more often than I'd like to. But I know I can't force a new one; it'll just happen when it happens and life will go on as it always does.


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04 Nov 2018, 10:17 pm

goldfish21 wrote:
Congrats! That's gotta be a good feeling.

I've had a handful or so of intense crushes in my life. The last one was a couple years ago. It's faded significantly, but I'm not completely over it. I'm pretty sure I'm just one of those autistics who's never really fully over a major crush until the next one happens. In some ways it's kind of annoying that I haven't had a new crush in a couple years as I find myself still thinking about the last one more often than I'd like to. But I know I can't force a new one; it'll just happen when it happens and life will go on as it always does.



I was at a healthcare center, I broke my ankle. I got a crush on my physical therapist, it gotten stronger being so close to him, he also was my friend, we talked, it was easy talking to him, we had things in common. Later I asked for another therapist. I left the healthcare center a little over a month ago, I thought my crush was over, but it not, I’m almost over my crush. I been dreaming & thinking about him, it’s wrong, he has a girlfriend.