Guys my type aren’t into me

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I really like guys with long straight brown hair, pale skin, brown, green or hazel eyes and are video game and REAL music obsessed. They like edgy, miserable, goth girls. I’m not goth and I’m happy nearly all the time and dress feminine




It just annoys me so much!

LOL....you wouldn't be into me, then. Oh well

Unfortunately my hair isn't long but otherwise I think we'd get along great

Your bed is a mess.

What kinds of guys are into you?.

Guys who are Nonverbal,have fetal
alcohol or Down’s syndrome and the occasional hfa with nothing in common with me

Well if you want to broaden your appeal, slimming down a bit might help, as overweight isn't the favoured body type by most guys (or girls). It's the same advice I'd give to a man in a comparable situation but ultimately it's up to you.

Funny how the usually givers of such advice to men here are silent when it’s a woman?

I’d honestly given how this horrible world works sugges the op changes who she wants to date, changes herself to match who she wants to date wants to date or accept being single.

I’d change if I could but I can’t so I’m stuck with being single.

Where/how do you try to meet guys? Maybe that's the issue. What you're looking for doesn't seem too difficult.

Well if you'd consider me one of them then you can't claim that I'm inconsistent.

Sly, I appreciate your input. Guys like my ex who was what I described doesn’t like girls who dress like me. They all based on multiple guys I’ve seen or met like to be with edgy girls. I wouldn’t dare sacrifice who I am.

That’s good
Im in a dark place currently so it don’t have my normally naive hopeful reply.
I’d date a woman like you. Most them wouldn’t date me.
If you want to remain true I think that’s cool.
It might not ever lead to love though sadly.
You could change and find love but then it’s a do they really love you question right?

Like say I could change say I get a better job and then I get a gf but she wouldn’t date me before so it would seem she loves the job not me.

Not in this matter anyways :p

From what I've seen, taste in what you find attractive in a partner can change over time.
People you find attractive at 20 may make you shudder at 25.

Iv'e seen your recent posts, you want to have a dating life and have a boyfriend right? Well i'm telling you, if you want to have a boyfriend, you should consider losing some weight. You have a cute face, so you'd look a lot better if your body matched your face.

I understand that your body type can't be completely changed, but if you want to be able to date higher quality men and attract more men in general, you should consider making it a new years to lose some body fat and get into better shape.

Because the good news is that your weight and your body type can be changed (to a certain extent), so the question is what's stopping you from achieving your fitness goals?

Get a gym membership, start doing aerobic exercises, eat better.

Don't get a bunch of sugary and unhealthy crap, eat healthy goods that are low in fat and sodium.


You may not ever be slim, but that doesn't mean you can't take on a more curvy build.

Looking at your photos, it's like your clothing seems a bit 'old' for you.
Goth clothing can be feminine, although you're kind of screwed if you don't like dark colours.