I don’t trust her.

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A new woman I’ve been chatting with for a short while (2 weeks), and saw her once in person.

And she is already flirting me too strongly and sending me kisses and the likes....

I am having a bad gut feeling, is that normal?

I don’t know anything about online dating other than what I’ve read here, but sending kisses doesn’t sound too bad to me. Strong flirty I might be concerned about, but I’d let it play out a bit longer.

Yeah... I would be. I'm always suspicious of someone who comes on awfully strong very quick when we barely know each other.

It makes me wonder why - like what's wrong with them (low self-esteem, already involved, abusive, looking for someone to pay their bills, etc.) that they're this needy and need to close the deal this quickly.

What's wrong with a little flirting? That's normal. How did the meeting go? Did the two of you hit it off?

Your thread title and your 'bad gut feeling' is all you need to know. Move on. There's no point analysing why you feel the way you do, because you know deep down it's not right.

If something seems too good to be true, then it probably is too good to be true.

Me & all 3 girlfriends I had came on very strong with each other when we hadn't been a couple for long. Yes & 4 of us did have some issues but I really believe that everyone has some issues within relationships & I really do not think that coming on strong with each other meant that we were all damaged goods who should die alone & lonely.
The problem in this post is not that the girl is coming on strong but that Boo doesn't feel the same way about her(at this point anyways). Like some others have mentioned I think Boo should play this out abit longer. If this keeps up it could mean that Boo just isn't into her as much as she's into him & maybe he should end it but at this point it's too soon to say.

Word about her reached me, she turned out to be a pro gold digger ever! She was used to ask her ex guy for assistance in bills, phone line recharging...etc.

I dodged a bullet.

There we go, trust your gut