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Kitty4670
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05 Apr 2019, 4:14 pm

I’m having trouble in my relationship, I started having trouble communicating with my boyfriend, I have trouble with my social skills, we been talking toooo much with each other. He told me today, I have not been spending time with him like I used to. How can I tell him we been spending too much time together? I thought that what you do in relationships, spending alot of time together, I want spend time with him, but I don’t know what to say to him sometimes. Maybe I don’t want him anymore, I don’t know, I still think about him & dream about him too. How can I tell him I don’t know what to say to him sometimes? I don’t want the words to come out wrong. Maybe I don’t belong in a relationship, since I’m having more problems with my Aspergers.



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06 Apr 2019, 9:19 am

How do you feel about him?



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06 Apr 2019, 4:20 pm

Me & my girlfriend spend alot of time together but not a lot of it is spent talking. We're both introverted thou so that is probably some of it. It also helps that we both like hanging out doing other activities together like watching TV or watching her play xBox or just doing life stuff together. Maybe it'll help if you guys both did an online activity together like play an online game. I played online pool a bit with my 1st girlfriend when we got bored talking about things, we spent a lot of time talking. We also played with mutual friends sometimes.


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11 Apr 2019, 11:38 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
How do you feel about him?



I love him



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12 Apr 2019, 12:08 am

nick007 wrote:
Me & my girlfriend spend alot of time together but not a lot of it is spent talking. We're both introverted thou so that is probably some of it. It also helps that we both like hanging out doing other activities together like watching TV or watching her play xBox or just doing life stuff together. Maybe it'll help if you guys both did an online activity together like play an online game. I played online pool a bit with my 1st girlfriend when we got bored talking about things, we spent a lot of time talking. We also played with mutual friends sometimes.



How can we play games, we text on hangouts.