Thank you for sharing. I gave me a little insight into my NT husband.
Unsolicited reflection: Yep. My NT husband said he liked that I was different. All those other women drinking beer and chit chatting. Then me: apart from the crowd, moving to the music... During our marriage vows he said he loved my honesty. Ha, ha, ha!! !
We laugh all the time about what we liked about each other, which were tips of a different iceberg. I loved that he would sit patiently and listen --- yea, so he was just warming up the car's engine. And that he was so calm = avoidance of responsibility.
What's great about our relationship is that we are equals in our way - we respect each other (even if we are not always respectful). Working on it.