What is the difference physically?

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What is the difference ‘physically’ between a person you might think ‘there beautiful” but not want too have sex with them and someone who you look at think “ I want too have sex with them”?


Basically it’s a question of sexual attraction

It depends upon the woman (or upon the man).

I know women who like rugged, macho types. I also know women who like almost-effeminate, model types.

Julia Roberts has certain tastes.

I wonder how Jennifer Aniston would feel about Idris Elba......

It's just the name of a celebrity I brought up who is about Julia Roberts' age.

1 year ago i saw this 6ft5 guy in a bar and the women were all over him

Good for him.....

I have to accept the fact that I'm not quite 5 foot 5.....and roll with it.

I think the difference in a purely physical sense boils down to secondary sex characteristics.

That being said, to ignore the interpersonal aspect of it is to remove probably 80% of it. I would much prefer to have sex with someone that is average looking but with whom I have great sexual chemistry, than I would the most attractive person in the world with whom I have no chemistry.

You could figure out the sexiest look possible for you and achieve it, but if you still mess up the interpersonal aspect of it it will only help a little bit. I know short, skinny bald guys who get laid 1000% more than tall, fit, athletic guys I know because of the difference in their charisma.

A good rule of thumb is that looking good will get more people to talk to you in the first place, but only helps a little bit after you have begun talking.

I find the "getting laid" aspect completely irrelevant. It doesn't matter a bit if you can get laid every day if you never can make it advance to something more serious and long-term than a single sexual encounter. You will still be a loser.

I think what makes an otherwise attractive woman attractive in the sexual sense is if she gives the impression that she actually wants sex with the person in question.

I have to add though that wanting sex with somebody doesn't necessarily mean that she is ready to actually have sex with him, but she would want to if things worked out otherwise. I guess the counterexample might be a woman that is willing to have sex but doesn't really want it all that much.

There isn't a difference in appearance to me but rather the likelihood of the possibility that we'd be having sex at some point.

If I think a celebrity is attractive that holds less weight than if I'm next to my husband in bed or something.