Do you feel like your living in wrong area to find partner.

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05 Jan 2012, 4:22 pm

Do you ever feel like your living in the wrong area to find your partner. Not because of your autism .
Maybe it were you live. Maybe yyour living in small population area and this brings low protential mates, or maybe its the area were people are most attractive to a look thats does not look like you. This is happening to me in cailforina. I feel no Men are not attractive to me because I look different then most women in cailforina. which is possible a good thing because I don't like The too much attention with the winking and men starring at me this what I get in new York but I still want to go live in new york to find a partner.

If you have anymore resonns why your in wrong area. Or answer the question. I love to hear your views



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05 Jan 2012, 4:31 pm

I feel like that would be my case anywhere. I live in Texas, and while I am a Christian, I am a Lutheran (Texas is about half Southern Baptist, half Catholic), and tolerate abortion (but only in cases of rape or incest), same-sex marriage, and medical marijuana (used only for that purpose). My interests are shared primarily by hipsters, and rarely by other Christians.

Yet in more liberal parts of the country, I would be demonized as an "intolerant prick" because of my Christian beliefs and because I vote Republican.

In a nutshell, I am a Christian, and a Republican, but also progressive.



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05 Jan 2012, 4:32 pm

Well, it would definitely be much easier to get laid if I lived in a city where no-one knew me... but other than that, no.



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05 Jan 2012, 4:51 pm

Tequila wrote:
Well, it would definitely be much easier to get laid if I lived in a city where no-one knew me... but other than that, no.


More people to get know also beside not knowing more people because of high population. and getting to know more people more likely to get in relationship. Not alway means you got a f** buddy



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05 Jan 2012, 4:54 pm

While I don't think that the grass is necessarily greener anywhere else or that life would magically become easier in another area, I do feel like I'm surrounded by people I'd rather not socialize with at all. Pretty much a bunch of drug addicts who do not aspire to do anything more with their lives. My mother used to be a sort of a social worker, so she also got to know plenty of the more dysfunctional people around here...I guess that's not really any indication of those who I might find better, but it really doesn't seem like there are any.



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05 Jan 2012, 4:57 pm

I sometimes feel the same as Tequila. It would be better living in a place where I am not known at all.



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05 Jan 2012, 5:14 pm

Another area no, another european country yes.


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05 Jan 2012, 5:22 pm

Not wrong area. Try Wrong Planet.



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05 Jan 2012, 5:23 pm

Lady-ivy wrote:
More people to get know also beside not knowing more people because of high population. and getting to know more people more likely to get in relationship. Not alway means you got a f** buddy


Indeed, yes. If you don't live in a place where everyone knows you, you're much more likely to find people that might be interested in you as they can see you afresh.



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05 Jan 2012, 5:42 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
Not wrong area. Try Wrong Planet.


:lol: I don't think we going to right planet in millions of years.



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05 Jan 2012, 5:51 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
Not wrong area. Try Wrong Planet.
I feel the same way.



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05 Jan 2012, 6:37 pm

Hell, no, I'm very lucky. I live in the intellectual, educated northeast of the U.S. The population, alone, is HUGE. This city is chock full of men. My complications are more my age and my circumstances (single mother).



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05 Jan 2012, 7:01 pm

I moved from PA to FL and found the man I am now engaged to. I am convinced that if I had stayed in PA, I would still be single, or have given up altogether!


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05 Jan 2012, 7:08 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
I moved from PA to FL and found the man I am now engaged to. I am convinced that if I had stayed in PA, I would still be single, or have given up altogether!


Ha ha! I moved out of PA, too! (I'm a native New Englander who went to college in PA and then stayed for 10 years afterward).



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05 Jan 2012, 7:23 pm

I would say yes. I live in a fairly rural, super-country/redneck area and I'm not into that country stuff at all lol.



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05 Jan 2012, 9:39 pm

Defiantly YES :!:
I cant drive & live in a rural area with no public transportation. Lots of people here are Catholics who love to party, smoke, have casual sex, get drunk & do drugs; I'm straight-edge, not into causal sex, I'm a Secular Humanist(I have no problems dating someone who is religious but I would want my partner to respect my non beliefs as I respect her beliefs & lots of the Catholics here preach religion at others instead of practicing their own beliefs). I'm politically liberal & my area is very hard-core conservative. I'm also disabled & the politicians here campaign that individuals getting disability or other assistance are lazy welfare leaches who are sucking on the teets of the hard-working American tax-payer. I think I would have better luck up north or anywhere that's for away from south Louisiana


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