Tinder tribulations

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Hi all, I've been given tinder a go and while I do get some matches I seem to have great difficulty in starting and maintaining conversations on the app. I was just wondering if anyone could read through the latest convo and tell me anywhere I'm obviously going wrong, ta

7:30 PM Your profile doesn’t give a lot to go on but judging by your pics “what’s you’re Disney movie” might be a safe question?
7:30 PM Oops that sentence should have included the favourite

7:31 PM I like all the princess movies

7:38 PM I’d go with Peter Pan myself, being able to fly would be pretty awesome, I’d never be late for lectures again

7:39 PM ahaha
7:39 PM funny
7:40 PM So you’re a student from Sheffield?

7:41 PM Yep, I’m a medical student, yourself?

7:41 PM Law

7:41 PM Oh boy, pls don’t sue me

7:42 PM ahaha

7:45 PM Then again, if I have get sued it might as well be you, I don’t think I’ve seen a prettier lawyer

7:47 PM I'm shy to hear you say that
7:47 PM haha

7:49 PM I imagine you get it all the time lol, are you doing law as a post grad or is this your first degree?

7:51 PM In fact, I majored in finance as an undergraduate, but I went on to study law as a postgraduate in China, and now this is my second master of law degree

7:53 PM Oh wow, and I thought I did a lot of study as a medic! It’s very impressive but I am wondering why anyone would do not one but 2 law degrees?

8:24 PM The overseas study experience is still very useful for finding a job in China
8:25 PM I need to write a short paper now, so let me leave for a moment

8:39 PM No worries

And she didn't get back

Can’t tell who’s who
Also if your getting messages and matches your doing ok, I never get matched, so I don’t have any advice sorry

I'm the person who speaks first and there's a paragraph every time a different person is talking

This could be factual , this could be a brush off or a factual brush off.

How long has it been since last contact , was this today's conversation ?

Nah, almost a week ago

imo it sounds like a brush off then but I'm not a psychic.

You could always message her back and ask her how her paper went and if she has time to chat ?

I think it probs is too, but I was wondering if anything I said was terribly off putting

She probably found a better looking ow well off man
This is dating now. You could be talking for months then she sees a another guy and ghosts you, sometimes it doesn’t work out and they start messaging you again.

I asked a professional ( a women - my GF ) , she said you said nothing wrong, in fact she thinks you may have even caught her out on a lie as why would anyone do 2 law degrees ?

Alrighty,thanks, good to know I wasn't crass or anything at least