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I have been talking to a girl I met on dating for Facebook. She is a house keeper, Larps and is into fantasy stuff. I haven’t told her I have Aspergers yet. I asked her what did she like about my profile, she liked two of the pictures I have up. Also it seems like i’m a nerd type person like her. What is the next step? Anyone?

Sounds like you have a better chance with her than that librarian.

You have like, a big crush on this new girl like you did with the one you just decided to move on from?

Something tells me the librarian is not all that interested. No big deal. I was thinking of asking this new girl, Gina is her name, for her number.

I was talking about the girl you’re currently talking to. Do you have strong feelings for her?

I’m asking because I was in a relationship for 5 months and to be honest, I didn’t have a strong attraction to her. I just wanted to date someone that would understand me and I could more relate to, as opposed to some popular girl who was going to go a university for 4 years. Those girls are/were way out of my league.

It was fun early on, but I eventually grew tired of the relationship and I broke up with her. She probably still hasn’t recovered a month later.

What I’m saying is, I don’t want you to be excited by the idea that you’re in a relationship, only for the feeling of “I could do better” to become too strong for you. It especially wouldn’t be fair to her. I had the same experience.

Alright mother Goose lol;). I want to see what’s behind her mask. If you get what I’m saying.

Eh, not entirely. I know that you’re saying that I’m sounding your mom or something. Other than that, I don’t get it.

I want to take her mask off and see what is behind it.

In other words I want to discover the person she is inside. Now do you understand?

I think I do now.

“ Can’t judge a book by it’s cover, there’s so much more to discover”

She is not career motivated at all. I think that this is a problem.

Is she a foreigner by any chance?

Careful...she may be a dude.

Well does she work? I think it is possible one could be responsible and hold a job without wanting a full blown career...seems a career is like taking that step where it goes from being your job to your life...I can certainly understand why some people don't want that.

Of course if a career is a requirement I suppose it is a problem, but my point is not having a career doesn't necessarily have to be problematic provided they do not behave like a lazy moocher and at least are willing to work and contribute.

I want someone who is able to share the expenses of everything that is mine and my other half. I don’t make enough money to be a sugar daddy. I have dated a few women who didn’t want to work.

I don’t have a “career” but I’ve been on my job 39 years.

I just don’t want to have to be the bread winner in the couple, do you follow?

Is she able to get by rite now financially without being very dependent on someone else Some people have a lot of money coming in but spend a ton more & want someone to help bail them out even thou they make a lot. Others don't make much but are able to do OK on their own by living within their means. If this girl your interested in is in the latter type, there's not necessarily a problem. I'm disabled & most women wouldn't even give me half a chance cuz of it. Even the women who got by on their own had no interest in me cuz they automatically assumed I'd be financially dependent on them even thou I got money from the government & was working minimum wage jobs for a while. I didn't spend much money on anything thou, I mostly just spent money on health care & then tried the save the rest that I could. Me living very frugally didn't matter to most women even thou I wouldn't of been dependent on them for anything financially other than maybe housing which should of been fine if they owned their own home but they still saw me as a dependent leach.