Asperger's Syndrome and liking the Opposite ?

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Hi my question is there a link ,between Asperger's Syndrome and liking the Opposite ? What I mean is I am Male and White and American have have. Asperger's Syndrome but I really like Women, that are seen as Exotic what I mean is I like Russian Women European Women French Women German Women British Women English Women, a lot more than White American Women because I like Women that have Foreign Accents and or speak, Foreign Languages I like the French Language and Russian Language also I like Middle Eastern Women Latin Women from South America Indian Women from India for some reason. I always loved Women that are Different and the Opposite and Exotic since I was a Child is there any Link between this and me, having Asperger's Syndrome I feel I can not help it is what I find Sexually Attractive I am posting this Thread because, I watched this Youtube Video thank you for replying ?



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Thank you for checking out my video on Male Asperger's Sexuality.
In this video we begin by discussing some of the attractive attributes and behaviours of someone with Asperger's syndrome on the dating scene; we then discuss what the man with Asperger's is typically looking for in a partner, and ending with some advice on the possibility of relationships, and further information on the sexuality of men with Asperger's syndrome.
This video mainly covers aspects Asperger's dating, what that experience can be like both from the perspective of the person with Asperger's and what is attractive about them from someone else's point of view.

If you'd like me to go into more detail about the sexual side (intimacy) of Asperger's dating, I can certainly do that in future videos. Let me know in the comments below

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MadofaA
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Attractive qualities in aspie men:
1. high intellect.
2. speaks their mind. Honesty.
3. Strong moral convictions and sense of justice.
4. Typically more ”feminine” than NT men. Sensitivity openess.
They are looking for:
1. Someone who is on the opposite: someone very social and
someone with good mothrrly instincts
2. Someone who have strong moral convictions.
3. Accept that You will never have an effortless relationship!

Be upfront when you do meet someone, with your condition, and prepare them that it will not be a conventional relationship.


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That not what "Opposite" often means in that context, usually it refers to opposite characters rather than nationalities.

Personally, I think the "Opposites attract" is often a wrong cliché, a TV trope mostly, people often attract to similar personality/values. Maybe the women from those nationalities you mentioned happen to have closer views to yours?

When I read the thread title I thought this post was about someone with Aspergers who was attracted to very social NTs.

I think the opposites attract thing is about each others differences being exiting/novel/unique/different & being able to compensate for each other's weaknesses. I tend to be more attracted to people who are more like me.

As for as mike being attracted to exotic women, some Aspie guys have found that women from other cultures are more accepting of them. Foreign women are more likely to consider things as cultural differences instead of seeing the Aspie as a loser. If the foreign woman has immigrated, her & the Aspie can sympathize about both being outsiders in that society. Plus like you hit on Boo, foreign women have different characteristics & have different things they value. Have you considered trying to meet foreign women online mike?

Being attracted to people-not-like-us occurs in the NT community as well.  It is not an exclusively "Aspie Thing".