I’m Single Again

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My boyfriend broke up with me. I’m depressed, I stayed in bed until almost 1 pm. I don’t want another man, relationships are tooooo hard with having Aspergers. I’m done with wanting men.

I’m sorry your boyfriend broke up with you.

I hope you get out of bed soon, and cook yourself something nice.

Don't be depressed AS girls have a lot to offer that NT girls don't If your BF can't see that it is his lose. I have been married to an AS girl for 11 years and wouldn't trade her for a NT girl in a million years. Cheer up there is the right person out there for you

I'm sorry this happened. You're not lacking in anything just because someone doesn't choose you, don't forget that. If you're a kind person who doesn't hurt others, that is enough. You are enough.

Me too! I was a little depressed at first, but then I realized it was for the best. She constantly cancelled dates and then rescheduled them, which honestly annoyed me a little.

Better to get the mismatches out of the way now. Anytime I get lonely I look at the unhappy train wrecks that are the lives of so many of my co-workers. While I do long for a connection, I will be able to retire before 50 if I choose to, with a livable pension that won't be diminished by ex-wives or children. I'm sure she is out there, just as I'm sure your Mr. Right will inevitably pop up down the road.

I did try am Aspie blind date, and it was weird. All she wanted to talk about was Heist Wizard books, and I could tell the ship was sinking when I said, "You mean like Harry Potter?" It even came out in slow motion. For future date prospects that may bring up Heist Wizards, Harry Potter is NOT considered a Heist Wizard.

I will personally throw a coin in the fountain in your honor next time I pass a fountain and actually have a coin in my pocket. I'm bad at analogies, so I will leave it with "poster of a kitty on a branch that says hang in there." Your posts are always positive and insightful, and I firmly believe you will find love sooner rather than later.

I didn’t know AS girls have alot to offer than NT girls, can you tell me what they have to offer more? My boyfriend was NT, he was great boyfriend to me. He was sooo understanding & patience, he read about Aspergers on his own.

My partner likes my honesty and childlike wonder, my nonconformity (which he reads as carefree). Of course this comes with confusion and childlike frustration, and "rigidity" (refusal to confirm to stupidity). He rolls with it all. I would consider these ASD traits. And here I thought he liked me for me.

I'm sorry for the loss of your recent relationship.