Equivalent of being a fat girl?

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I remember this guy on yahoo answers said that being a 'short' guy with an athletic build is the equivilant of being a fat girl.

Do you think there is some truth to that maybe?

Depends how shallow prospective partners are.

No, because being fat is unhealthy. A short, athletic guy can't possibly be unhealthy unless he's on steroids or whatever. Even though I don't get sick often and I don't smoke or drink, I'm not healthy simply because of my weight.

At least that's what people seem to think. They never think a person can be healthy in spite of being overweight, or that there are thin people who are a lot leas healthy. They might be thin because an illness has made them lose a lot of weight.

Men and women have different value systems in dating.

A better equivalence may be a guy without a paying job. And no wealth or assets to speak of.

I like fat girls 'cos they can't run away.

Not true of short athletic men, though.

I suggest using bolas next time. Works like a charm.

ROTFL

pretty sure the male equivalent of being a fat girl is being a fat guy.

That doesn't quite make sense unless athleticism/an athletic body is looked down on wherever that guy lives.

I do understand that many people don't want to date a man who is below average height, but I don't see how an athletic body is undesirable.

Yes I think I understand the analogy but girls are far more harsh on dating a shorter man compared to males and fat girls.

In my opinion fat girls can always find a thin husband. Short men very rarely find a taller wife.

But I am average height so better to have a short guy comment, pretty sure Kraftie will chime in with his successful dating stories

Short is short, and fat is fat.

Took you long enough

Many women prefere tall guys unless a shorter guy is shortening them a bit.

Reminds me a huge slavic guy in a club who drank to much. He was about 7 feet tall (I'm 5'10) and body builder with very thick arms and very broad shoulders. A huge V body on a wasp waist. He made arm pressing with another big guy and did win easily. Afterwards he began to go crazy. There was a smaller guy who did want to be his friend and he enjoyed his fear of him and ripped his shirt open that most of the knobs went off. That was totally fun to him and he did point to my shirt as well but I sayd no to him a bit amused. Then he became nasty to some girls and made them angry. He thought all guys being afraid of him. But my mind works different and while he was going wild I asked myself how it would be to push that huge cone that was his upper body and bring it a little bit out of balance. But I like sometime to scare other guys a bit as well and for this I just reached him my hand for acting together a bit. He wasn't aware that reaching the hand in a honest way means being self-confident, not having fear and standing together. He took my hand but instead of being honest with it he thought me being afraid of him and then he did spot the knobs of my shirt and couldn't resist to grap after my shirt while still holding my hand.
That made me immediately very angry and I pushed his hand that I was still holding under his chest for testing how it is to bring that huge cone of his upper body out of balance. He got out of balance but as he was doing a step back to get into balance again I pushed a lot harder and with much more power. It was kind of throwing him away with just one hand (in the other hand I still had a bottle of beer ). He began to run backwards to get his feets under his upper body again and tryed to grab with his long arms the people right and left of his way to get some hold but they moved fast aside because they were all aware of him and curiously watching the things before. "That's right to him!" did I hear the excited high voice of a girl behind me. And then the gravity did win and he landed on his back five or six meters away on the dirty wet ground who was full of broken glass. He didn't know anything about a falling school and a tall body falls down from a big high. I didn't even move and was just watching and awaiting him coming back. But he wasn't a fighter and the biggest muscles are useless without guts. So he just disappeared and I have never seen him again in that club. Some guys around did gratulate me afterwards and I felt the boobs of a girl who was turned on by this in my back. But I disliked that the wrong idiots who were afraid of that idiot before came out of their holes now again ...

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Where do you come up with these things?

Very stupid analogy. On many levels.

I’ve found many “fat girls” attractive.

Is it something you heard in the bar?

Amen brother. Amen!

No on yahoo answers



And to the poster ‘cyberdad’ who said it’s very rare for a taller woman to marry a shorter man.....my uncle is 5ft7 and his wife (my aunt) is 5ft11.