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19 Aug 2020, 3:35 pm

Two days in a row I saw a coworker, enter the building, while I was leaving. She smiles at me casually. I would like to find out who she is and find out about her. I would like to ask a friend to do a reconnaissance job for me about her. She works second shift and I am on first. Thoughts anyone?



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19 Aug 2020, 3:37 pm

Outsider85 wrote:
Two days in a row I saw a coworker, enter the building, while I was living. She smiles at me casually. I would like to find out who she is and find out about her. I would like to ask a friend to do a reconnaissance job for me about her. She works second shift and I am on first. Thoughts anyone?


Don't try to date a coworker? That kind of situation could go really south.



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19 Aug 2020, 3:41 pm

Friends, though?



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19 Aug 2020, 3:41 pm

Friends what?



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19 Aug 2020, 3:44 pm

At least be friends with her?



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19 Aug 2020, 3:55 pm

I don't think that would cause any apparent problems (maybe for you in your brain if you remain attracted to her). I would just be careful getting too close to people at your work because if some issue arises you could find yourself out of work. I don't mean to sound harsh :|. Who knows though, maybe you'll both really hit it off and it will lead to something.



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19 Aug 2020, 3:57 pm

Try as friends and see what happens. (Hunch talking to me) something might not happen.