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Angnix
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14 Jul 2020, 11:25 am

Dear sweet friend that will never read this:

I love you... I see not just your "aspie like" qualities which I think are cute... but you dear friend somehow know how to get me out of meltdowns like you did today!! ! I know you said girls don't like you because of your death obsession and the fact you even used to work for the funeral home lol and you have every single funeral home and cemetery location in the area memorized lol... but you also like Amish culture which is cute too while you read up on the Amish on your Galaxy S9 lol. Your sense of humor is ummm.... crude for some reason but funny as heck, I just joke back at ya!! !

Stupid uncle telling you that I would make a lousy mother... I love you don't you understand?

Maybe I should just wish for your happiness with whoever you end up with.

Love Angela


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14 Jul 2020, 1:01 pm

He will read it if you send it to him.


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14 Jul 2020, 1:35 pm

I was thinking about it but I'd have to edit it cause he doesn't like people saying he has any sort of neuro disorder and Id add more to it but other than that...


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14 Jul 2020, 2:16 pm

I didn't send that exact wording but I expressed my feelings over messenger... he didn't respond to me until I started joking.... sigh...

Maybe I should video chat him and be shirtless but just have something barely covering me... he digged that before :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

Edit: OMG I actually did it and you should have seen the response lol


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14 Jul 2020, 2:22 pm

I heard twerking is efficient.



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14 Jul 2020, 4:57 pm

Angnix wrote:
Edit: OMG I actually did it and you should have seen the response lol

OK - tell us.


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14 Jul 2020, 5:36 pm

ehh, he just posted a sticker of a guy peeking over a wall...


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14 Jul 2020, 8:01 pm

Now I'm angry at him... First of all by crude sense of humor I mean some of the stuff he says to me is so inappropriate that I could attempt to edit it and I still don't think it would be appropriate for WP... I said one of the things he said to me to a worker at the hospital and she was concerned... I quote what he says to me to my uncle and he thinks it's funny...

Anyway, I was just now joking to him on IM... Okay it was a bit inappropriate but TAME compared to the crap he says to me... He forwards the messages TO MY UNCLE and told my uncle he was upset I was being inappropriate to him!! ! My uncle got mad at me... I think during our conversation I partially spelled out a naughty word and sent a couple of emojis with double meanings for laughs...


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15 Jul 2020, 1:31 am

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15 Jul 2020, 3:10 am

Why do you like this guy????

He sounds like a real creep.



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15 Jul 2020, 10:49 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Why do you like this guy????

He sounds like a real creep.


I'll admit him and my uncle's roommate, same person... His joking at first was cute but the joking about sex acts... I gave him a talking to this morning... He even agreed he needs to stop with the sexual joking...


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15 Jul 2020, 12:59 pm

Angnix wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Why do you like this guy????

He sounds like a real creep.


I'll admit him and my uncle's roommate, same person... His joking at first was cute but the joking about sex acts... I gave him a talking to this morning... He even agreed he needs to stop with the sexual joking...


Well, to be fair....

Didn’t you say in your second post that you did a video call before with him while you were shirtless and *barely* covered?

A guy would highly likely to interpret it that you are interested and open to sexual talk with him.
If sexual talk offends you that much then don’t behave with him in a way that is sexually suggestive.



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15 Jul 2020, 2:24 pm

Well... I kinda act like if someone is being inappropriate with me I need to do it back to "fit in"... It's a bad quality...

My uncle confronted me today and asked why I told him to stop with the talk when it was me doing it!! ! I said that he has no clue what he says when nobody is around... I gave him an example then and apparently I used a slang term my uncle never heard of... I had to explain it and his reaction was "he says stuff like that to you... Really???"


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15 Jul 2020, 11:41 pm

Why is he involving your uncle in the first place? lol what a strange story.



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16 Jul 2020, 2:41 am

Agnix you are in dangerous company. Didn't you say this man is on probation for sex offences?? Why would you behave in such a way with him? IMO you need to separate from both him and your uncle now. You are leading on a dangerous man. Some men here may find it entertaining to read but I think you are heading for serious trouble. Trust your care team only. You are worth better than this.


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16 Jul 2020, 5:22 am

Teach51 wrote:
Agnix you are in dangerous company. Didn't you say this man is on probation for sex offences?? Why would you behave in such a way with him? IMO you need to separate from both him and your uncle now. You are leading on a dangerous man. Some men here may find it entertaining to read but I think you are heading for serious trouble. Trust your care team only. You are worth better than this.


So only half of the story was told in the OP.