Benjamin the Donkey wrote:
I can only speak for myself, but I've always had female company. And I'm incapable of making the first move, so the lady needs to initiate things. I also don't have much money and am hopeless at a lot of basic life skills. In spite of all this, I'd say I've been more successful than some because...
1. Some women actually like our eccentricities. It's true.
2. In my younger days, I used to be quite good-looking. Still bearable to see.
3. I'm very good at a couple of arts, so that's attractive to a certain range of women.
In conclusion, I disagree with your general statement. The same could be said about lots of types of men. Also, there are qualities and skills we can develop to increase our attractiveness. These can overcome the negative points.
Some women are charmed by an aspie male's childlike (not childish) perspective on life.