How To Break Up w/a Guy?

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Kitty4670
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03 Nov 2020, 11:18 pm

I want to stop talking to a guy or 3. I can be a little overwhelmed with them.

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03 Nov 2020, 11:41 pm

It's best to be honest with them about why you no longer want to talk.

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04 Nov 2020, 12:08 am

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:

It's best to be honest with them about why you no longer want to talk.

Total agreement. :wink:

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04 Nov 2020, 3:04 am

One of the men said I love you already, it was the doctor, we met a little before Halloween.

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04 Nov 2020, 5:09 am

He seems nice. You mentioned that you had difficulty finding a boyfriend and now you have three? Wow! Hehe. Aww. I hope you find just the right man for you.x

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04 Nov 2020, 5:57 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

One of the men said I love you already, it was the doctor, we met a little before Halloween.

Have you met in person Kit?
Sensible people don't fall in love so quickly. I trust you to sift out the scammers and false profiles. Remember not to give your personal details to anyone, and keep communication only on the dating site until you are 100% sure they have pure intentions.

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04 Nov 2020, 6:11 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

One of the men said I love you already, it was the doctor, we met a little before Halloween.

This sounds very suss.
I'd be very cautious.

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04 Nov 2020, 9:15 am

With smashing a whipped cream pie on their face.

That would be funny.

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04 Nov 2020, 9:17 am

Kitty4670 wrote:

One of the men said I love you already, it was the doctor, we met a little before Halloween.

He's Doctor Who.

He perceives time differently.

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04 Nov 2020, 9:34 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Kitty4670 wrote:

One of the men said I love you already, it was the doctor, we met a little before Halloween.

He's Doctor Who.

He perceives time differently.

That's actually very funny. What matters though are Kitty's feelings and it's not a joke.

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04 Nov 2020, 9:54 am

Hey Kitty ... all good men know they must wait for women and give them time ...

... as for the Doc ... he has been assessed and deemed “unworthy” of you ...

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04 Nov 2020, 2:24 pm

Teach51 wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Kitty4670 wrote:

One of the men said I love you already, it was the doctor, we met a little before Halloween.

He's Doctor Who.

He perceives time differently.

That's actually very funny. What matters though are Kitty's feelings and it's not a joke.

Kitty is pretty tough, in this area/context, based on past experience.

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04 Nov 2020, 2:30 pm

Maybe just take a break from dating apps.

Also, any guy who says he "loves" you after a few text chats is a loon and best avoided.

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