Older women and younger men?

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It depends on the maturity of the 2 people involved.

Now that I'm middle aged I wouldn't show interest in a younger man. Typically they want a partner their own age. I don't want to humiliate myself.

But you do get old souls, so to speak, who just prefer the company of more mature people.

So if a younger man showed an interest in me I would spend some time with him and find out a bit more about him.

If it turns out he's too immature in his outlook, then it wouldn't work for me personally.

I used to like older women when I was young.

Now that I’m pushing 60, I wouldn’t want a woman much older than me.

Interesting question, as I feel I'd have a lot in common with a woman who was a teenager in the mid-late 90's since I was 5-7 during that time but intellectually a teenager, but I still tend to be interested in younger college-age women partially out of a desire to make up for not having a girlfriend in high school

I’m 50 & younger men finds me attractive & want to talk to me. I’m mentally younger then my age, so I’m more interest in younger men,men who are 35-45, sometimes guys who are 37.

NT, here...I also think that it comes down to the two individuals...I have always looked considerably younger than my age...By more than one decade, i am told...In my younger years, i would hang out with people of all age groups...However, i was mostly sought by men 10 years younger than me...Maybe, because i was perceived as fun...Younger men liked me, but i always saw them as my little brothers...Who would image that in my mature years i would come to marry coincidentally a man ten years younger than me...

This is my explanation: To date, i consider myself young at heart...In fact, i have been accused of acting as a teenager... ...On the other hand, my beloved husband is an old soul in his tastes and outlook in life...He easily surpasses me in life experience in general terms, and especially in the romance department...He was a very solicited Aspie with the ladies, young and old...He seemed to prefer them way older than him; I am one of the youngest of his romantic quests...So yes, it comes down to the individuals involved...

There are younger people of all genders in my area that I find quite attractive. They must have long hair, though.

I'm sure some couples make it work but more often than not, those relationships have limited milage. While they last, they can be quite fun and easy going.

Who cares, as long as the people involved are consenting adults and happy?

I don't judge others. What ever consenting adults want to get up to in the privacy of their own homes,
i don't object. I mean, who am I to say anything.

What ever people are into.
I guess I am liberal.

Personal preference, I guess there is a limit as to how much younger i should regard as acceptable
when it comes to younger woman. As, it really would feel wrong, even if the younger woman were even
attracted to me. Which, for the most part, I doubt, when there are so many good looking potential partners
around of their own age.

As for older woman, again, what ever floats your boat.
I think that again I am fairly liberal, although again, i think that there perhaps would be circumstances where being with an older woman would also feel wrong, like extreme differences in age.

Perhaps there are exceptions, I don't know though.

From a morally conditioned society perspective, we are expected to conform to the standards of the society that we live in and grow up in.

I know however, haven been in a band with African men, their attitude towards woman is completely different.
They are much more liberal, and see younger healthy woman as more attractive and more capable of providing them with children.

Like I say, who am I to object to their culture, as long as they aren't marrying children. Which they do in some countries, which i personally perceive as wrong, but is a normal practice in some countries.

My late wife was 8 years older than me.

On dating sites, I go from 9 years older to only 5 years younger. There is a huge difference as you exceed 5 years younger - profiles with very minimal information, trophy girlfriends, pictures photoshopped with cat ears, face piercings, along with other kid stuff - and I'm 61! I joke about how cougars are too young for me, but it's true. I want someone I have something in common with, not an estate manager.