Yes, the looks is very important

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The_Face_of_Boo
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26 Jan 2021, 1:59 am

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26 Jan 2021, 2:13 am

Based on the straight line correlation on the graph, combined with “No s**t, Sherlock,” I’m going to have to agree and say: Yes, yes - looks are very important.


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26 Jan 2021, 2:21 am

This in no way inclines me to be dishonest about being weird.


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26 Jan 2021, 3:56 am

I was a very handsome teenager, but then I had a rough time in my late teens because my social skills were falling too far behind. My mental breakdown became physical and my hair started falling out at 17. My shower drain kept clogging. I was shining through my hairline by 20 and was bald to the back of my head by 22. I never became comfortable with it. I was neglecting myself through my 20s and my good looks are forever gone.

Not receiving help for my autism while I was young sucked the life out of me and robbed me of my best years.



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26 Jan 2021, 9:51 am

This one is very interesting:

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26 Jan 2021, 10:03 pm

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

I will say I did get lucky that approaching 30 is for sure the best ive ever looked. I mean I do still look 22 but in a good way.



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26 Jan 2021, 10:27 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
I was a very handsome teenager, but then I had a rough time in my late teens because my social skills were falling too far behind. My mental breakdown became physical and my hair started falling out at 17. My shower drain kept clogging. I was shining through my hairline by 20 and was bald to the back of my head by 22. I never became comfortable with it. I was neglecting myself through my 20s and my good looks are forever gone.

Not receiving help for my autism while I was young sucked the life out of me and robbed me of my best years.


Some people look really good bald! :D

You could take up lifting weights, and shave your head, sporting a light shade of stubble on your face to emphasize your good facial features - women love that. :D

You’re only 33 so you’re still young enough to turn things around - it’s not too late! :thumleft:



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26 Jan 2021, 10:33 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This one is very interesting:

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Another proof that I am male brained. o-o

Grandma is attracted to people she calls ugly. Im guessing this is common for women. There's also the saying 'The man must be only a bit more handsome than Satan'.

If I had to guess Uncle Fester from Addams Family is very loved for his looks.

Shaun Ryder was adorable.

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26 Jan 2021, 11:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Of course, it is true.
Humans tend to be very superficial.
Evolution at work.
What can you do? [shrug]

Move on with life. 8)



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26 Jan 2021, 11:39 pm

r00tb33r wrote:
I was a very handsome teenager, but then I had a rough time in my late teens because my social skills were falling too far behind. My mental breakdown became physical and my hair started falling out at 17. My shower drain kept clogging. I was shining through my hairline by 20 and was bald to the back of my head by 22. I never became comfortable with it. I was neglecting myself through my 20s and my good looks are forever gone.

Not receiving help for my autism while I was young sucked the life out of me and robbed me of my best years.


Aint that the truth.

"Life's a b***h and then you die."

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26 Jan 2021, 11:41 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This one is very interesting:

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I like women. :heart:

I'm not convinced the graph is particularly accurate, though.

If you look at couples, they are overwhelmingly in the same attractiveness league.
I stand by what I said. 8)



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27 Jan 2021, 6:34 am

Does the first graph show cause and effect? I often start to think people look attractive after I've found out that I like their personality, I can't be the only one.


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27 Jan 2021, 6:55 am

Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This one is very interesting:

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I like women. :heart:

I'm not convinced the graph is particularly accurate, though.

If you look at couples, they are overwhelmingly in the same attractiveness league.
I stand by what I said. 8)



I think a lot of women do end up with men who initially saw as 'not hot' looks-wise.

Otherwise, they'll die single.

I wonder if the bottom graph correlates with how women perceive themselves.



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27 Jan 2021, 9:55 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Pepe wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
This one is very interesting:

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I like women. :heart:

I'm not convinced the graph is particularly accurate, though.

If you look at couples, they are overwhelmingly in the same attractiveness league.
I stand by what I said. 8)



I think a lot of women do end up with men who initially saw as 'not hot' looks-wise.

Otherwise, they'll die single.

I wonder if the bottom graph correlates with how women perceive themselves.


That's actually an astute observation.
Women tend to be pretty tough on themselves. We base a lot of our value on our looks and we're usually critical about it and compare ourselves to other women often. We tend to feel like we're not "good enough."


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27 Jan 2021, 2:16 pm

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r00tb33r wrote:
I was a very handsome teenager, but then I had a rough time in my late teens because my social skills were falling too far behind. My mental breakdown became physical and my hair started falling out at 17. My shower drain kept clogging. I was shining through my hairline by 20 and was bald to the back of my head by 22. I never became comfortable with it. I was neglecting myself through my 20s and my good looks are forever gone.

Not receiving help for my autism while I was young sucked the life out of me and robbed me of my best years.


Some people look really good bald! :D

You could take up lifting weights, and shave your head, sporting a light shade of stubble on your face to emphasize your good facial features - women love that. :D

You’re only 33 so you’re still young enough to turn things around - it’s not too late! :thumleft:


Back in high school girls liked touching and running their hands through my hair, it was always thin and soft. I would get a compliment "So soft!"
I also got startled a lot by unexpected touching which caused a lot of people to pull away from me...

Yeah, I've tried shaving my head twice in my life. I don't like the sensation of baldness, with or without the shave, I'm honestly not that comfortable without the hair on my head. Some people call the shave "liberation from the hair", myself, I don't like the bare skin.

I grew a beard during the past couple of months during the pandemic. I started growing while I took a vacation to move into my new house. Then I noticed the benefit of padding the mask away from my face, so the mask itches less. So the beard definitely stays until he pandemic is over. Yes, indeed the beard makes the mask less effective... But.



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27 Jan 2021, 2:27 pm

So what are the default "standards" of attractiveness for both men and women, as well as for queerfolk?

:) Note: I prefer the term "queerfolk" only because it is easier to say than "LGBTQQIP2SAA".


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