What the hell do these people want?

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I'm frustrated as a w*ker with Plentyoffish.com, it's an NT dating site. f**k! I don't know what I'm supposed to do!

"I'm gonna call you back in an hour"

I hate sitting by the phone, waiting waiting waiting, for that f*****g call! If you're not f*****g interested, DON'T RESPOND TO MY EMAILS AND DON'T GIVE ME YOUR PHONE NUMBER!. She doesn't call. Damnit!

I didn't even ask for her phone number. Not a private message saying, "oops, sorry I didn't call last night, I forgot." And they say aspies have trouble with common courtesy.

I don't know what girls want from me. What the hell do they want me to do?

Dumb f*****g b***h gives me her f*****g email adress. As soon as I add her and talk to her on MSN, she blocks my ass! She's like..."do you have any pics?" Yeah, I send them. She blocks me. She should have read my f*****g profile! I had f*****g pics, what is this girl...stupid?!

I don't even understand the concept of friendship (with guys or girls) at this age. I don't even understand what it means to be a friend anymore. I find it so hard to make friends at this age. Everyone just has this way about them (I can't describe it). They don't call back. They always have bigger and better plans. I don't even know what it means to entertain someone anymore. It's like they always have something better to do. Someone better to be with.

This concept of being "desparate" and "needy"! This just pisses me off! I don't understand it. Aren't we all needy? We're f*****g human, aren't we??! !! I don't harrass these girls. I send one message a day, at the very most, sometimes two.

NT: "I'll give you a call"
JKrane: "No you won't! f**k off!

End Rant.


EDIT: Sorry about the swearing. I'm just really angry at NT women, and women in general between the ages of 18-21. Damnit.

Heh, eharmony works in weird ways too. I've had plenty of women go through the whole 3 prongs of answering my questions, reading my answers, doing the 10 can't stands/must haves, the more in-depth questions, and then we'll actually post something like emails or blogs back and forth for a couple rounds - they seem like they're interested and enjoying the conversation, then they just drop off the fact of the earth.

I have a female friend who has the same problem with guys on there and we were talking about this a couple nights ago. The funny thing is, she's also one of those people where she rejected whatever image society threw at her, she did what she could to be her best self, and while she loves the independence and freedom of really being her its come at a cost - for some reason guys just aren't interested. I can really relate to that in the sense that when I was lost in the maze back in highschool, when my problems were at my worst, and when I really didn't know myself, things worked a lot more harmoniously with women - however when I really decided to push my strengths, not let other people dictate to me who I was, and started presenting myself as I wanted to; sure it gained respect from the guys but women were almost turned off. I'm thinking this is because she, like myself, has a more cerebral style of communication - that seems to beat everything to dust in the dating world and Dave DeAngelo has spelled out that people have a very small, weird, and petty way of viewing that.

Damn, man.

I don't know what to believe anymore. These girls speak in lies. I can't tell the difference between what is truth and what is false.

The system girl virus is invading the minds of what I thought were pure human beings. Plentyoffish is now littered with system girls. System girls spread a virus, they want to control everyone and everything, and they manipulate everyone and everything with their web of lies.

The virus is spreading. I want to stop it. But I don't know what substance it is. The virus that destroys and corrupts all logic and reason.

Its not just system girls, its system guys too. It gets uglier yet...that system, its not a societal thing, its not an NT or AS thing, its way more fundamental than that - its people who listen to their genes and apply natural law as our 46 chromosomes would want us to. That's ie. weed out the week, go for the most alpha animal, get yours from them, and make relationships as difficult as possible for the sake that those who want sex the most are the only people worthy of passing their genes on. Its basic, its crude, and it make me hate those 46 chromosomes in every cell of my body. If there is a Satan I'd swear he's in them because everything evil in general stems from animal-based sheistiness.

Here is what I wrote to this b***h!! !!

I'll call you back in an hour. f*****g BS!! !! !! !! !!

Why the f**k did you give me you're phone number, if you weren't interested in the first place?" How stupid are you? Or this all just a sick game to you?

YOU CAN BE HONEST, YOU KNOW! I AM NOT OFFENDED!! !

SAY NO!

HOW f*****g HARD IS IT TO SAY NO???! !! ! NO I AM NOT INTERESTED!! !!

I CAN HANDLE REJECTION JUST FINE IF IT IS IN A MATURE, UPFRONT, AND HONEST MANNER.

I DON'T KNOW IF THAT CRAP ABOUT THE CALLER ID WAS JUST A LIE, BUT IF YOU HAVE CALLER ID, DON'T CALL MY PHONE. DON'T CALL ME. DON'T MESSAGE ME.

YOU PLAYED GAMES WITH ME. I'M NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.

I AM BEING 100% UPFRONT AND HONEST. I HATE PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY ARE GOING TO CALL BACK AND DON'T.

I HATE PEOPLE WHO PLAY CHILDISH GAMES!

I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU! WOW, THAT WAS f*****g HARD. IT TOOK ME ALL OF 5 SECONDS TO WRITE THAT f*****g SENTENCE.

AM I BEING CHILDISH BY MESSAGING YOU LIKE THIS? NO I'M NOT! I ACTUALLY HAVE THE DECENCY TO SHARE MY FEELINGS OF FRUSTRATION WITH YOU SO YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY LEARN WHAT GOES ON IN A MAN'S HEAD WHEN YOU PLAY STUPID GAMES LIKE THIS!

YOU OBVIOUSLY AREN'T MATURE ENOUGH FOR THE DATING SCENE.

I AM BLOCKING YOU FROM POF.
DON'T ATTEMPT TO CALL MY PHONE! I WILL HANG UP ON YOU. NOT LIKE YOU WOULD ANYWAY...

HERE IS MY FINAL WORD OF ADVICE:

DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT ON POF.
APPOLOGISE TO ALL THE HONEST MEN YOU LIED TO AND CHEATED.
LEARN MORE ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX, AND HOW THEY THINK AND FEEL.
BE UPFRONT AND HONEST AND SAY YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED.
SIGN UP FOR ANOTHER POF ACCOUNT IN A FEW YEARS WHEN YOU ARE MORE MATURE.

-JUSTIN-


Man, does that ever feel great!! !! !

I deleted my account at plentyoffish. I'm done with that s**t.

Um, wow, that's a little unfair though. When I say people are slaves to their genes I mean it. They don't really mean ill, they're just locked in their own little words - its rather sad. Their social norms are their social norms, they've lived on them, they're stuck to them, and they're way more slaves to life than we are.

Way to come off as completely psychotic there. Remember women are social beings, and no matter how unfair it may seem to you, they'll do what they do, but there are plenty more women anyway. Just remember that a rant like that will get bad gossip about you spread, and then women will avoid you like the plague.

You're a very deep and insightful person, techstepgener8tion. You have a very mature and intellectual outlook on this whole situation. The virus that enlsaves humanity is so disgusting.

I am the cure. You are the cure. All those who wish to fight it are the cure. I am not a slave to illogical social norms.

I told the system girl how I felt. That's the cure. If we all share our true feelings, and we all embraced our own uniqueness, we wouldn't have system girls.

They say they're looking for a nice guy. They say they're different, unique, whatever. It's all just an act. The system virus takes many forms.

Then theyre are those who are just blantantly advertising how the system virus has destroyed them:

"I like partying, chilling, hanging out with friends, beer, partying, hanging out with friends, ohh, and did I mention partying, chilling, beer and hanging out with friends?"

First date Idea:

"uhh i don't know...coffee?"
"what ever the guy/girl wants to do."

Come on! Are these people devoid of all creative thought?
The modern dating world is a f*****g joke!

Well, its a double edged sword. On one end we're free, on the other end by realizing these things - if we don't compromise and meet people in the middle, its a sure recipe for us going out to age 40, 50, 60, 70, 80, death - without having a significant other. We just have to admit that the rest of the world isn't on our page, that if we maintain on our page we'll die alienated and alone, that's the way of it - its impenetrable and no matter what either you or I do its unchangeable.



But you have to say it in her language so that she'll understand it and in a non-attacking way, even then odds are she'll still think any guy talking like that is a freak.



No, they talk out both sides of their necks. Most really want a caveman and you can't cure them, you just have to accept it at face value, they'll never change and the best you can do is just let go of that bitterness because they hate any negative energy that isn't alpha'ish in projection - being thoughtfully or intelligently disturbed by the dating scene is about the most deformed thing a guy can do to his personality, I've learned the hard way.



Conformity is God unfortunately. Life is complicated, perfectly good people land on the human wreckage pile, and the best you can do is adapt - you don't stand a prayer of changing people around you because they have a real easy card to play against that, its called alienation and unfortunately those norms own and wield the power.

Sorry to leave this conversation on a down note but you have to realize that aspies and NT's have to face this corruption in tandem, no matter how good a person is they'll be attacked on all sides - being too soft, being too abrasive, being too thoughtful, being stupid, I almost think the whole point of being on this earth as a human being is to be hardened like a diamond so that when your soul goes back to the other side its rock-steady. If there is a God and there were fallen angels, they're an example of what happens if people don't go through the hell of experiencing negativity, pain, hardship - and yes, horrid no-win situations as well on earth.

Thank you, techstepgener8tion.

You are so wise.

Thank you.

Stand strong and proud.

I had an account on POF, but I only landed one date, and about two thirds of the women who viewed my profile were in their 40s (I'm 27).

Tim

They don't know what they want either...

That's the real problem.

The fem-matrix has you.



Seriously though, a large part of the problem is exactly what I said in my last post: most women don't know what they want.

Ironically the people who act like this actually make things worse in the long run for themselves and their children.

Take the 'rule of law' for example. Most people are short-sightedly selfish and if they could get away with some wrong-doing they would. But that kind of behavior subverts the rule of law. Why is this important? That's becuase under the rule of law we give up short-term selfish advantages in exchange for long term stability and prosperity.

The World Bank actually found that countries with the strongest rule of law (that doesn't mean police state) also have the most prosperity.

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/opin ... entary-hed

Incorrect.

What you're suggesting would be like a character in a zombie movie yelling at the zombies for wanting to eat people.

We are outnumbered. They are the way they are, and neither logic and reason nor rage are going to change them.

You need to learn to ignore and move on. You are looking for a needle in a haystack, and it isn't going to help one bit for you to stop and yell at each individual piece of hay. Just push the hay aside so you can focus on finding that needle.

Trust me on this. I've been doing the online dating thing literally since it started.

Well put.



Wow.