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Chuchulainn
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29 Jul 2007, 12:20 am

Or is it just me?



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29 Jul 2007, 1:33 am

Nah.

It's just that the bad looking ones don't post pics. 8)



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29 Jul 2007, 1:36 am

That's such a silly question isn't almost doesn't dignify a response... Are most NTs good looking? Are most anythings good looking?... I used to be compared to Hugh Grant a lot when I was in highschool... I now realize it was meant to be a compliment.


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29 Jul 2007, 2:54 am

i'd be good looking if i had a cooler wardrobe, better skin, and did something with my hair.

but yeah, this is kind of a silly thread idea... what are you trying to prove?



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29 Jul 2007, 3:34 am

gwenevyn wrote:
It's just that the bad looking ones don't post pics.


If I were a hideous monster of proportions that even its mother would strangle with its own umbilical; I’d still post my picture. (Such a monster is what I’ve always wanted to be as it would show the world the pain I feel within.) People see me out there, and if I spoke they'd still see me; I'd like people to see the person behind the pen as people have never seen both before. I'm sure a lot of [classically] autistic individuals would feel the same as me....

OP: Most people look the same to me (other than a few rare exceptions); perhaps you're noticing a lack of...of facial tenseness that many who're on the autistic spectrum exhibit; it’s an expression that you notice when you look at yourself. This could be one reason....



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29 Jul 2007, 5:05 am

Given our fickle and shallow modern society in which we live, if most Aspies were good looking then the majority of us would have no trouble at all finding a relationship...

Looks-wise, we're no different to anybody else. One persons beautiful is another persons ugly.


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29 Jul 2007, 5:46 am

I think the spread is about the same as in the NT population.



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29 Jul 2007, 5:58 am

I'm an A-grade piece of man meat. I fear that posting my pic would completely derail the picture thread and asplode my PM box.



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29 Jul 2007, 6:12 am

Danielismyname wrote:
(Such a monster is what I’ve always wanted to be as it would show the world the pain I feel within.)


Gods what I'd give for that.
Though sometimes, the way people
look at me, I think that it might be true. :P



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29 Jul 2007, 6:30 am

Chuchulainn wrote:
Or is it just me?



Wow, I'm at least KIND of subtle in my self-indulgent Blah-blah-ing about my own sexiness. J/K don't mean anything by it man :wink:

Anyways, in my opinion most people are good looking period. Their at least average if they leave themselves alone but if they make an effort to take care of themselves even a little bit, it goes a loooong way. Even then alot of people have enough natural beauty that they can dress 'frumpy' and not take care of themselves at all and they'd still be pretty cute.
I mean that "Hawt" girl or guy you see didn't just get that way, they just put a tiny bit of effort into themselves and act like they're awesome, or with confidence for the less abnoxious ones.

This goes for pretty much ALL body types in my opinion. I've seen it first hand.



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29 Jul 2007, 6:41 am

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.



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29 Jul 2007, 7:12 am

Well, we're certainly manly manly manly.
But, I don't necessarily mean that in a good way. Not with the "macho" implications, but just with more pronounced secondary masculine features, like super-long ring fingers. I'm talkin' 'bout the girls, too. So that might be a little creepy.



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29 Jul 2007, 7:14 am

Phantasmagoric wrote:
Well, we're certainly manly manly manly.


Don't count on it. I can make a hell of a good looking
woman. Tend to act rather femme too.



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29 Jul 2007, 7:46 am

looks aren't everything


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29 Jul 2007, 7:51 am

BazzaMcKenzie wrote:
looks aren't everything


Sadly true. :P

Hell, I just wish they were
enough to make up for my
lame abilities to do small talk.



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29 Jul 2007, 8:13 am

calandale wrote:
Phantasmagoric wrote:
Well, we're certainly manly manly manly.


Don't count on it. I can make a hell of a good looking
woman. Tend to act rather femme too.

Don't take it the wrong way, but you could look like the hottest woman in the world, but I don't think I would be sexually attracted to you - lol


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