Does anyone just not care?

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About Not Caring:

I'm a male here, 20, never had a girlfriend, never had sex, and blah blah blah.

When I was in High School I did a lot of sports and I was pretty good looking.

Throughout Sophomore to Senior Years a lot of girls would hit on me, one girl even stopped me in the hall and had her friends do this little play, but I just walked along as if I didn't even care.

On a lot of days, I realized that like 2-3 hours after the event had happened that the girl was actually hitting on me.

I usually just either thought they were bored, or just being friendly.

But I still have the nomral things that other guys around my age have- Masturbation, Etc Etc.

I still judge girls when I walk by on a scale from one to ten unconsciously but I never realy feel any actual attraction.

Is this suppose to mean anything?

Twenty, never had a girlfriend and never had sex.

OK, what's the rush?

I was twenty two before I had my first girlfriend and I finally lost my virginity when I was twenty nine. It takes time to get to the point where dates are no longer a major effort and time to learn the social techniques which seem to be required. For now just make sure that you are in as many situations as possible where you can meet members of the opposite sex.

As for rating girls on a scale of 1-10, nothing wrong with that providing you realize that they are entitled to judge YOU the same way. What would you score?

Ed Almos

Not really much or a rush- Just the society in America says that males should have sex ASAP.

As for the score, I would rate myself as a 4 currently. Face is 10, Body is 1. Not a very good combination.

So you dont care about being a virgin then?
Usually its not a big deal for girls but for males usually they want to get it done as soon as possible. Just nature I guess, or society, yeah, I think thats it. Society.

"I still judge girls when I walk by on a scale from one to ten unconsciously but I never realy feel any actual attraction.

Is this suppose to mean anything?"

It means you have a pretty low sex drive.

I don't give a s**t, any,pre.

I did not care between the ages of 0-23

Now suddenly I care, im 25 and realize ive been good at celibacy but what I need now is committment, and family.

Brian003, count your blessings.

Well I'm going to a good school and from what it seems- I am getting smarter; school wise at least.

However, I made a promise to myself a long time ago that I would forgot about the way I look until I solved my chronic bowel problems.

Okay, since I just took a picture of myself and I rerate my Face as a 2, and my body as a 1. Overall about a 1.5/10! Woot!

Since I am ugly now where is the cure to the bowel problems? It wouldn't be fair if something counter productive didn't happen.

Sex is overrated anyway.

Money is the only thing that matters.

Obviously, you've never loved.