help with pulling a girl

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there is this girl i really like she is coming down for a couple of days and we r going to the pub but i dont know how to pull her as im shy?? help pls someone

Do you mean pull her on top of you so you can have sex with her or pull her into your heart?

You can literally just physically grab her on put her on top of you, if she's drunk enough she'll probably go with it.

"Pull her by the short and curlies" as we used to say back home.

i mean try and get with her go out with her etc

All I can give you"

be nice, but not too nice
express interest by talking and touching (not sexually)


You gotta reel them in somehow, let em know you are interested and make them interested in you. Then be a dick and ignore them a bit so they are craving your attention.

I am the kind of person who would just tell her that I have an interest in her.

Dunno if it would work for you but I am sure you can figure something out! Just believe in yourself brah.

well, i have dated in the past, and screwed up every time, all i can say is be affectinate, but id almost let her lead as far as the physical stuff goes, the first date, i would just talk, but dont be distant, like i was, show her somehow u like her, i did not, and they thought i didnt, i did, just could not convey that to them, talk about your life, ask her about hers, get to know eachother, be attentive, smile, be confident. My biggest regret, is in the past i would not know what to do, so i could not show her i was interested, today, if some girl came up and i was interested, i would sit close to her, look at her, engadge her and definatly give her my phone number, and make future plans.

I'm hoping that you already have strong
mutual interests. Just run with talking about
them, at first. If you get as animated by your
interests as I do, 'twill really break the ice.

From there, one has to just flow. Listen to her.
Try to watch and see if you're boring her. And
when the moment's right - YANK! (or whatever
it is you wanted to do)

OK, first principle, talk about "pulling a girl" when she's in hearing range and you won't see her for dust.

Now, let's see if we can help you out..........

1. Have a shower or a bath then after cleaning your teeth put on something decent before you go out. T-shirts are OK providing they don't display a contraversial message on them. If you're worried about your appearance ask a friend or family member before you walk out the door.

2. Just in case you plan on picking her up in your car, you did clean out your car didn't you?

3. Carry with you
Enough money
Paper and pen
Small pack of tissues
Pack of condoms in case your night really IS lucky

4. Try and meet somewhere quiet if you want to talk. It's difficult trying to have a conversation if music is blasting away.

5. Be yourself and don't try too hard. I know that this sounds crazy but trust me, you need to take things S L O W L Y.

6. Try and listen to your own conversation. As an AS sufferer you may either try to dominate the conversation or limit it to one subject of interest, this is not a good thing. On the pieces of paper that you're carrying note down two or three things which you can BOTH talk about.

7. Don't drink and drive. Ever.

8. At the end of the evening tell her that it was fun and you would like to do it again sometime.

The rest of the evening including goodnight kiss, being invited in and the use of those condoms is optional and depends on the circumstances. The board members of WP can't be looking over your shoulder all the time.

Good luck

Ed Almos

A point of clarification for the yanks on the board:

To "pull" a girl means to either succeed it getting her to go out or make out.

Can one pull oneself then?

I mean, in that sense.

Don't pull a girl, pull a pull pop

ask her to pull you - lol