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14 Mar 2022, 7:04 am

Does everyone find it Boring being in a Play-Park with your "married with kids" friends?



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14 Mar 2022, 9:50 am

I've never met Al Bundy. :(


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14 Mar 2022, 1:33 pm

I think people who aren't parents of young children could very well find it boring, loud, annoying, and/or other unpleasant things. But being a parent (of now grown kids), I can appreciate the value in having adult conversation with someone while the kids run around getting out that energy. Back in the day, I would have thought that was a nice way to spend a few hours in a day. These days? Eh. I prefer to stay home and avoid loud kid filled places. If I am going to hang out with my grandson, for example, I'd rather have him here where I can spoil him rotten, run around and play, and then send him home. As for kids I'm not related to? No thank you. :lol: No kid parks in my near future. Not because I find them boring...I rather like playing on playgrounds, but I do find them loud, chaotic and overwhelming.



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14 Mar 2022, 3:46 pm

"Boring" would be an upgrade for me, some days.

Mrs and daughter display patterns of behavior consistent with BPD.

Too often I have related things to worry about.



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15 Mar 2022, 12:52 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
I've never met Al Bundy. :(


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15 Mar 2022, 12:55 pm

FleaOfTheChill wrote:
I think people who aren't parents of young children could very well find it boring, loud, annoying, and/or other unpleasant things. But being a parent (of now grown kids), I can appreciate the value in having adult conversation with someone while the kids run around getting out that energy. Back in the day, I would have thought that was a nice way to spend a few hours in a day. These days? Eh. I prefer to stay home and avoid loud kid filled places. If I am going to hang out with my grandson, for example, I'd rather have him here where I can spoil him rotten, run around and play, and then send him home. As for kids I'm not related to? No thank you. :lol: No kid parks in my near future. Not because I find them boring...I rather like playing on playgrounds, but I do find them loud, chaotic and overwhelming.


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Okay so just enjoy it while it lasts because they will out grow the play park some day..



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16 Mar 2022, 1:25 pm

As someone who has wanted kids for several years before finally getting pregnant, hanging out in a play park with a parent friend and their child has generally elicited more of a mix of happiness and jealousy, rather than boredom. Many times I've fantasized about just taking someone else's kid home and having them be mine forever.