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Crystal1414
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15 Jun 2024, 2:55 pm

There's no doubt I'm attracted to men but I'm realizing I've also been attracted to women all along. It makes a lot of sense. I have a pinup tattoo. I also had girls in my class I wanted to know and I'd be nervous around them. I didn't realize it was a crush at first. I think I didn't realize cause I went to a Christian School for a bit where I was taught things about it where it was a sin.



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15 Jun 2024, 5:13 pm

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I think I didn't realize cause I went to a Christian School for a bit where I was taught things about it where it was a sin.

Yeah, they also said it's a sin to play video games, listen to rock music, and getting into other things considered "un-Christian" just because the ones who said them just have a personal distaste for them. :roll:

But, hey, it's cool you're bi. I respect that. :)

Oh, but don't think that every religious person is homophobic.

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24 Jun 2024, 1:48 am

Congratulations. You've doubled your opportunities. Enjoy.


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24 Jun 2024, 11:38 am

Please don't allow the concept of "sin" to make you feel ashamed. I think an all-knowing, all-loving God would see same-sex attraction and consensual relationships/actions as harmless... Otherwise they don't know everything, because with reasoned-out morality, there's nothing evidently wrong with it at all.

I could go off on this a long time, but overall I just look at Christians who call it a "sin" and I'm all like Woody in KH3 when he says "Whatever you're talking about, I don't care", because reason tells me that there's nothing wrong with homosexuality, and I would die on that hill.


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26 Jun 2024, 10:41 pm

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27 Jun 2024, 11:18 pm

Crystal1414 wrote:
There's no doubt I'm attracted to men but I'm realizing I've also been attracted to women all along. It makes a lot of sense. I have a pinup tattoo. I also had girls in my class I wanted to know and I'd be nervous around them. I didn't realize it was a crush at first. I think I didn't realize cause I went to a Christian School for a bit where I was taught things about it where it was a sin.

Congratulations for joining the club. Also, I hope you enjoy the invisibility that we all get. Please don't tell anybody though, I'd have to lose it.



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28 Jun 2024, 12:02 am

I err think I might be bisexual to.

But it is complicated as I am in a long term relationship with a male, and I think multiple relationships seem like a hassle. But that is not to say I woud not want sexy time with another woman just for the experience of that if it was juust a one time thing with no commitment, but would also kind of depend on if my boyfriend was ok with it.


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