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Kitty4670
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29 Dec 2023, 2:25 am

I been friends with my ex-boyfriend since we broke up 3 years ago. I think he wants me back. He been saying ’hello beautiful’, tonight he called me, his babe. He been coming online everyday to talk to me, he never came online everyday before when we were just friends. I could be wrong, I been wrong about men before. I need help, can someone help me?



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29 Dec 2023, 2:27 am

Whatever information you can give about him would be helpful. Why did you guys break up in the past?


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29 Dec 2023, 7:53 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
I been friends with my ex-boyfriend since we broke up 3 years ago. I think he wants me back. He been saying ’hello beautiful’, tonight he called me, his babe. He been coming online everyday to talk to me, he never came online everyday before when we were just friends. I could be wrong, I been wrong about men before. I need help, can someone help me?


There's two important things you need to ask yourself:

1. How do YOU feel about the situation, do you reciprocate the feelings?
2. What's the reason you two broke up before? Is it a deal breaker now?


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29 Dec 2023, 8:28 am

You could always ask you ex-bf whether he has had a change of attitude towards your friendship.



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01 Jan 2024, 8:42 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Whatever information you can give about him would be helpful. Why did you guys break up in the past?

Why is my break up matter now? I think I was wrong, he think of me as a friend.



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01 Jan 2024, 11:06 pm

I just thought that it would help us to understand the situation better.


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