"She is a Slapper", they said

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Aspie_Chav
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28 Aug 2007, 2:20 pm

She is a slapper my work mates said. They was talking about some celebrate, actor who sleeps around and once had sex in an elevator.

My argument against their attitude is one should hate the sin not the sinner. Give advice to the person concerned that his/she’s attitude is wrong and should change. Using labels like that is judging the person in a hateful/ disrespectful manor.

Who is to say that her liberal sexual attitude is wrong? Wasn’t it once considered wrong be wrong to have sex out of marriage. Now things are different.

Most people consider sex to be sacred that you have with someone you live. Logically, this is easy to understand. Sex is the process that which brings a living human being into this world. Having sex with many different partners who is never going to stick around is not in the interest of the child. This is mostly the reason why woman who sleep around are given a harder time then men.

However, if sex wasn’t a process that brings a child into this world then it wouldn’t be so sacred and it could be shared like shared cookies or wealth. Some people use protection and others cannot have children. What about these people.



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28 Aug 2007, 3:30 pm

Aspie_Chav wrote:
However, if sex wasn’t a process that brings a child into this world then it wouldn’t be so sacred and it could be shared like shared cookies or wealth. Some people use protection and others cannot have children. What about these people.


This is interesting. If sex was completely unrelated to procreation, then we probably wouldnt feel the urge to do it as the chemical reward wouldnt have evolved.

I think most/many men have a dominant mindset, they want to fight for possession of females to protect their genes (like the alpha-male Lion who eats all the cubs that arent his) Even though contraception has been invented, the possessiveness is too deeply rooted in most men to dissolve easily imo.

Then again if you look at Bonobo monkeys (our closest genetic relatives) they have a matriachal societies where sex is shared freely with the whole group, and acts to diffuse aggression and keep everyone happy. Were also related to chimpanzees though.. So i suppose polygamy can and does work, but its not for everyone.



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28 Aug 2007, 3:47 pm

aspie chav, didnt you used to be, ermmmm black?



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31 Aug 2007, 6:21 am

Sex in the elevator is fun.