Boyfriend doesn't butter to the edges....

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24 Dec 2024, 6:28 am

My bf just made me some toast but it wasn't buttered to the edges

Is this a deal breaker?


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24 Dec 2024, 6:55 am

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My bf just made me some toast but it wasn't buttered to the edges

Is this a deal breaker?

If you were French you wouldn't care.


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24 Dec 2024, 6:59 am

Another girl who complains about this..
I don't have to worry about this anymore since she went gluten free. She doesn't trust me to use her butter container.
She's forever weaponising my incompetence..



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24 Dec 2024, 7:04 am

^^^ I hope you spat on it, threw it on the floor and demanded he make it again properly.


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24 Dec 2024, 3:16 pm

babybird wrote:
My bf just made me some toast but it wasn't buttered to the edges

Is this a deal breaker?


100%

Almost as bad as putting pineapple on pizza or killing people and eating their hands.


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Yesterday, 11:25 am

It's over

Literally but it's not about toast

I'm a bit devastated because we was having such a good time but he let me down in the end so I had to finish it

It's really sad


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Yesterday, 2:20 pm

I wasn't too keen on his true colours


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Yesterday, 2:23 pm

Oh man. I’m really sorry.


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Yesterday, 2:33 pm

Thanks man

I'm just too old and have been through too much to put up with someone else's s**t... especially in a full train

I think that no matter how you feel about a person life's far too short to be publicly humiliated and berated like a child

I'm just glad in happened in public.
It was just easy for me to get off the train at the next stop and make my way back home


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Yesterday, 4:31 pm

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Yesterday, 5:14 pm

That means a lot thank you


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Yesterday, 11:20 pm

Try asking him to do so for you first



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Today, 2:47 am

funeralxempire wrote:
babybird wrote:
My bf just made me some toast but it wasn't buttered to the edges

Is this a deal breaker?


100%

Almost as bad as putting pineapple on pizza or killing people and eating their hands.


where is that video you posted? It's pretty weird/funny



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Today, 4:32 am

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
Try asking him to do so for you first


You're late to the party
It doesn't matter anymore :P


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Today, 4:51 am

A possible partner complaining about not butter to the edges would be a major red flag for me, possible a deal breaker. Better safe than sorry and end before it gets more serious.


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Today, 6:16 am

Yeah I know and you're right

We made this thread together as a joke and I actually bet with him that most people would take his side on this

Unfortunately our relationship has had to come to an end (not toast related) so I don't suppose it's relevant anymore

Thank you for your input though


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