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01 Nov 2007, 1:41 pm

:D So I have this amazing boyfriend Brian William Smith, he means the world to me and so much more, we have been dating for a year now and I'm so in love with him. I can see myself being with him in the future and getting married when we are both older.


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01 Nov 2007, 1:47 pm

Whoop-dee-do :|



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01 Nov 2007, 1:47 pm

That's lovely, much pace to you from London


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01 Nov 2007, 2:09 pm

Good for you.



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01 Nov 2007, 2:21 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
Whoop-dee-do :|


You're not alone, man. :|



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01 Nov 2007, 2:46 pm

Phagocyte wrote:
Ziyaret wrote:
Whoop-dee-do :|


You're not alone, man. :|


Yeah...

Sorry to the author of this post but, I think many here are tired of seeing love all around them when they feel helplessly alone.



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01 Nov 2007, 2:51 pm

Congratulations,. but you should realy edit your post so it just says "Brian" or "brian S."



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01 Nov 2007, 4:06 pm

[quoteSorry to the author of this post but, I think many here are tired of seeing love all around them when they feel helplessly alone][/quote]

Well said. I hate to disappoint you marmar but you're only 17 so dont get your hopes up about marriage Just Yet. If there's marriage potential its gonna take at least 2-3 years to realize itself.



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01 Nov 2007, 5:16 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
[quoteSorry to the author of this post but, I think many here are tired of seeing love all around them when they feel helplessly alone]


Well said. I hate to disappoint you marmar but you're only 17 so dont get your hopes up about marriage Just Yet. If there's marriage potential its gonna take at least 2-3 years to realize itself.[/quote]

Dude. . she said "when we are both older."

Also. .

Congrats. I hope it brings you great joy, and doesn't end up badly in some way.


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01 Nov 2007, 5:58 pm

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Dude. . she said "when we are both older
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Dont play dumb with me Jainaday. To all those of you here who are "in love": Thats really swell and I wish you luck but those of us who arent there yet really DONT wanna hear about it. Every time I here someone gloat about their newfound relationship I just cant help to inject some cynicism. :lol:



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01 Nov 2007, 6:35 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
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Dude. . she said "when we are both older
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Dont play dumb with me Jainaday. To all those of you here who are "in love": Thats really swell and I wish you luck but those of us who arent there yet really DONT wanna hear about it. Every time I here someone gloat about their newfound relationship I just cant help to inject some cynicism. :lol:


However, the mere fact that aspies have trouble with relationships make this posts vital to have here - it offers hope to all of those who haven't found love yet that it is in fact possible.



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01 Nov 2007, 7:58 pm

TheMidnightJudge wrote:
Phagocyte wrote:
Ziyaret wrote:
Whoop-dee-do :|


You're not alone, man. :|


Yeah...

Sorry to the author of this post but, I think many here are tired of seeing love all around them when they feel helplessly alone.



To all three of you, I think it is very inconsideret to down play someone elses feelings just because you dont have love right now. you should be happy for marmar and if you cant be posative about it you should just not say anything at all.

I am very happy you found love. :)


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01 Nov 2007, 8:04 pm

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To all three of you, I think it is very inconsideret to down play someone elses feelings just because you dont have love right now


Hrmmm, well she've found love and she's happy so I doubt that being somewhat dismissive of her feelings of joy will dampen them.
I guess I found it rather inconsiderate, especially coming from a girl since girls have a much easier time with finding such things, that she brag about her new bf to those of us who are still searching and have nothing but tenative faith. But I wont hold it against her, its just a reminder.



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01 Nov 2007, 8:04 pm

I wasn't playing down her feelings, I was trying to make Ziyaret feel better by pointing out that he was not alone, which he isn't.

But I'm sorry if I came off as trying to play down her good fortune.



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01 Nov 2007, 8:11 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
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To all three of you, I think it is very inconsideret to down play someone elses feelings just because you dont have love right now


Hrmmm, well she've found love and she's happy so I doubt that being somewhat dismissive of her feelings of joy will dampen them.
I guess I found it rather inconsiderate, especially coming from a girl since girls have a much easier time with finding such things, that she brag about her new bf to those of us who are still searching and have nothing but tenative faith. But I wont hold it against her, its just a reminder.


Why rub it in our faces?



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01 Nov 2007, 8:22 pm

Ziyaret wrote:
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To all three of you, I think it is very inconsideret to down play someone elses feelings just because you dont have love right now


Hrmmm, well she've found love and she's happy so I doubt that being somewhat dismissive of her feelings of joy will dampen them.
I guess I found it rather inconsiderate, especially coming from a girl since girls have a much easier time with finding such things, that she brag about her new bf to those of us who are still searching and have nothing but tenative faith. But I wont hold it against her, its just a reminder.


I dont see it as braging, if you were really happy about somthing you might want to share it also.


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