Maxx wrote:
I just realized I'm doing the same to another girl. The reason? I REALLY don't want to hurt her feelings. I like to avoid as best I can the breaking of hearts.
Dude, her heart is definately going to be broken sometime in the future. Broken hearts are a part of life, and there is no getting around that.
By delaying the truth, you are only building her hopes up higher. When she finally comes to her senses, and realizes the truth on her own, she will be fall much harder, and hurt much more, because more of her heart and feelings were destroyed.
Break a heart when it is small, and it will hurt for a short period of time.
Break a heart when it is large and heavy, and it will hurt forever. She may not cry forever, but the situation will permanently taint her view of all men, as being game-playing cowards.