star1215 wrote:
So I guess next date I have to let him drive across town to pick me up, just so we can say goodnight at my front door and not in a parking lot?
Yes, definitely. I have studied NTs and their mysterious ways for 35 years now, and learned from past mistakes. You need to make the guy work a tiny bit. I don't mean play total games out of The Rules or something, and you don't have to play hard to get, but be a valuable woman that he needs to drive all the way across town to pick up.
I have the same instincts you seem to--I always want to be a super nice friendly girl and stuff. But if a guy likes you, he would drive across a STATE to pick you up, and be happy to do it. ( for a little while at the beginning at least, hehe)
And yeah, he might not want to kiss for the first time in a parking lot.