Alittle bit about myself; aspie man seeking Woman

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yesterday i found an article on the internet about aspergers and i realised it would be a good explanation of why i have had so much difficulty. So heres alittle bit about myself.

I did not cry when i was born and I was obsessed with dinosaurs beginning with my first memory and ending when i was 10 i think. after that i was interested in all science and mostly biology. From 3rd grade until early high school i claimed to be an extraterrestrial. i filled my story with enough details to get the more gullible people to belive me and the less gullible people correctly identify me as insane. i made drawings of alien organisms. i got my ideas by imagining the organism's habitat and ecological niche and designing the organism from the inside out or the outside in. i countinued this until i realised that i am incapable of imagining the sort biodiveristy that probably exists on other worlds.
if you get to know me you risk a long monolouge about what ever i happen to be obsessed with at the time. at the moment i am obsessed botany, genetic engineering, and long distance bicycle riding. If i annoy you just tell me to stop because i hate the feeling of not knowing if i am not welome

i think that due to compound probability i will not be able to find a female with aspergers who is between 18 and 25 years old and near manassas Va, but i can only hope. i am 20 years old, 5'7", weigh 143 pounds. i only wear solid colors and abstract patterns and i keep my hair very short because i want to avoid making any fashion statements. i am very empathetic and strangers think im attractive but people who know me call me ugly sometimes. i think its really my personality they call ugly.

really, i am looking for anyone who is tolerant of my personality type and is willing talk or chat with me, i wont talk your ear off if you dont want and i will listen to what you have to say, i would love to hear some rants. i gaurd my feelings by pretending not to care what other people think of me but i want to stop pretending. i feel uncomfortable in groups of 3 beacause i am usually the one that is left out but i really like one on one conversaions.
my AIM is BlakeRion06 and my email is [email protected]

Welcome to WP. Good luck with your search.
You might like to try www.aspieaffection.com. There are, of course many Aspie women on WP, too, and there are some picture threads where people have posted pictures of themselves.

i was talking to a freind from my taijutsu dojo and he told me that i do not have aspergers. he said aspergers is apparently more severe than i thought it was. while i am really obsessive and socially backwards, i probably thought i was aspergers because i wanted to believe it. i am able to have freinds and i can read facial expressions, not bothered by loud noises
ive also realised this is not the most effective way to get a girl.
it is somewhat ironic that i thought i had aspergers so i rearched aspergers obsessively
im still not sure though. the tests arnt helping because apparently i cant distinguish between moderate and severe.
any amerature psychologists are welcome to contact me and help me figure this out

im out @ GMU. we're tryin to get some aspie gatherings on campus

a few days have passed and i have become much wiser and i will pass the revelations on to you.

i am NT but i over researched aspergers untill i thought i have it because i am a wishful thinker and gullible.

i also read some advice on how to get girls to like me. it was the most confusing and disturbing thing i have ever read. such heavy reading that i had to take several breaks. it turns out i have been doing the exact opposite of what im supposed to be doing. girls dont like it when i talk about the same thing all the time and then beat myself up? go figure.

a few days have passed and i have become much wiser and i will pass the revelations on to you.

i am NT but i over researched aspergers untill i thought i have it because i am a wishful thinker and gullible.

i also read some advice on how to get girls to like me. it was the most confusing and disturbing thing i have ever read. such heavy reading that i had to take several breaks. it turns out i have been doing the exact opposite of what im supposed to be doing. girls dont like it when i talk about the same thing all the time and then beat myself up? go figure.