Stood up or just worried

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OK i was suppose ot go on a date tonight, which was rescheduled from another day she said she was moving in with her sister, so today I called here and there to See when we should met as it got later and later I didn't get a call back. Now she's been busy with financial issues and finding more jobs recently so I'm hoping I'm just being overly worried and I haven't been stood up I mean jeez if that is the case I would have atleast preferred to directly told she wanted to call it off.

I 'm willign to wait tfor a bit like say some time tommorrow for an explanation or something but is this a bad sign? Or am i overly worried?

It could be either - its just too early to tell.

I dunno, but I get a lot of confusing responses like that.

For example: I met this gal at a party, and after talking to her for just a few minutes, she gave me her number, and told me to call her the next weekend . So I the next weekend, I did call her, and she, a couple of her friends (girls) and I went dancing downtown, and I got to drive them home.
I called her every weekend since, and she always had some excuse, or said that she was buzy that night. So I stopped calling. Then, on Thursday of last week, I got a call from her! We were both too drunk to understand what was being said. I call her the next day, because I thought she was interested in me again. It turns out, she was in San Farancisco. . . . weird.

My point is, I know where you're coming from. That whole ordeal confuzed the bejeebeis out of me, so I just chose to ignore it all. ... Then again: I was never quite in love with her, so it's easy for me to let it all go.

I would say she has stood you up.
Sounds like she has a lot of issues at the moment; but if she were not standing you up, she would have called you to cancel your already rescheduled meeting to say it was just not a good time.
However, you need not take it personally...people do stuff like that ostensibly to "be nice" or not hurt the other person's feelings and as you see it is just confusing.
Sorry- I've been there and am speaking from hindsight obviously.
I hope you can find someone who is able to communicate with you better :)

Still no call today, stood up. I Dispise dating, but i hate the thought of being single the rest of my life as much more. such an annoying paradox.