I don't want it too end

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Me and my Gf just recnelty broke up 2days ago over messenger and i just want to try and sorta thingsout and not let it end i was thinking of calling her and try talking to her that way but i don't what i should i feel like i've said all i can i really miss her and just don't want to let her go oh Btw where aussie shes 15 i'm 17 we both have As we don't go to the same school i appericate your help

Every situation is different. At your young age it's certainly more likely that you could convince her to come back, but you have to question whether that's what you really want. If you feel like you've said all that can be said, there's little to be done, I would think.

It's normal to miss your ex-girlfriend at first, if you didn't really want the relationship to end. Try your best not to obsess over her, but only two days have passed--this wound is still fresh. Give yourself some more time to think, clear your head, and perhaps gain some detachment.

I just also don't belive it should just end over Messenger i want to call her and to talk about it but i don't know if i should and i know it's natural to miss and Ex but like i said before it's not right be dump though messenger

Why not?

I've heard this from guys a lot. I understand the sentiment of not wanting to let things go without saying your piece, I guess. But in all likelihood, what you say at this point isn't going to make or break the relationship. Whatever broke it already occurred.

Then again, I guess some girls do just threaten to break up with guys in order to manipulate what the guy does, rather than for the honest purpose of making an exit. But who wants a second helping of that?

I belive that it's not a loss cause i have been in the wrong and i belive she needs reasue that i still love her and that i am willing to reslove the problem and that we where talking happy and then it pops up out of no where i still thinks theres hope and her friends tell me she still talks about me and that she miss me but i also have a problem on know what to say

can anyone else help

Sorry for making incorrect assumptions.

It sounds like you know what to say...

YES THIS IS A GREAT PLACE TO ASK FOR THIS SORT OF HELP

all i can say (no offence) that your ex was a coward for ending it on an instant messageging service instead of saying it yo you in person. how greatly i despise those people

It would definitely be best to talk to her in person. I've tried making amends over e-mail/instant messaging, and I've found it doesn't work as well.

So here's what I suggest....

Since you two don't go to the same school, you'll have to go to her house. If she isn't talking to you at all (not even over messenger), then I'd wait until she does. Bring something for her like her favorite kind of flower (if you know it. if you don't, i suggest a rose). Keep the rose behind your back until she comes to the door. Then when she comes to the door, give her the rose and say "Can we talk?"

Actually, breaking up with people via IM is pretty common.

Happened to me too.

She also felt it was necessary to tell me that she had gone and f****d several guys so that I would hate her.

It's very possible this is the cause for me becoming a bastard.

I talkeed to her yesterday one the phone and we had a long talk she is reconsidering getting back with me plus i feel better that we are able to talk anyway