I think (hint to the board management) that a subforum for dating requests would be a good idea. Every member wanting to start a topic could start one (one per member) and that would be easier than topics scattered around the "love and dating subforum". I would propose a seperate forum where members can open a topic about themselves. Wolfgurl is not the first person starting a topic about this and in the "aspie single list" lot of people reacted as well, so there is clearly an interest in a subforum where dating requests could be put.
Just a suggestion to the forum management.
Anyway, good luck with it Wolfgurl. Maybe you should just tell a bit of those interests so that members can see if they relate to you. Good luck with the search
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Do what Thou wilt shal be the whole of the Law.
Love is the Law, Love under Will. And...
every man and every woman is a star
(excerpt from The Book of the Law - Aleister Crowley)
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