Who wants an aspie boyfriend?

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Who wants to give me a chance?

I'll make you happy; I promise

(you must be a female)

Sorry, I've got one.

But a word of advice - describe yourself a bit, invite people to chat with you online, then develop your relationship from a friendship you've developed there

I'm an aspie, socially inept, not overly good looking but not aspie looking either. I'm not known for being a "fun" person to hang out with. I don't know how to make small talk. Mid twenties.

I like to tell it like it is and I don't care how pathetic I sound and if you don't like the type of person I've described it's obvious you and I wouldn't get along.

The pros are that I won't mistreat you and I will accept you/do my best to accept you in spite of your aspergean flaws. I'll never make fun of you and I won't make you feel inappropriate. I'll listen to your problems and do my best to help you.

Last edited by Mw99 on 02 Nov 2007, 9:07 pm, edited 2 times in total.

C'mon ladies.....



He sounds like a catch!

Talk to him, seriously. Say, "hi"

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

Thats pretty sexist. I bet there are a lot of hot aspie guys just dieing for some Mw99 loving.

^ lol good one

Have you met a boyfriend or girlfriend online? The problem I find with that is the people met online could live anywhere, and it is usually not near by.

Yes twice. Once from a dating site - that didn't work out.

The other one was from a forum just like this one. I posted asking if anyone wanted to meet up in my area. One guy and one girl responded. They both lived an hour north of me but I went for the meetup anyway. A few days later I had to go back to the city and asked if they wanted to meet again. The guy said yes, the girl said no.

We found it nearly impossible to say "goodbye." Apparently we were so involved in our conversation that my sister who had driven me that day decided we were dating. And I was like, "I don't even know this guy." lol It was long after that we were undeniably a couple. Its going great. I can definately see us getting married in a couple of years. Heck, his dad already asked me about our plans for living with each other after graduation in the spring.

This thread is proof that I suck at attracting women

What did you expect? You merely posted three sparse lines saying nothing about yourself.

what should I have said?

I don't know, maybe describe yourself or something? I am no Casanova by any stretch of the imagination, but you can't just post an "invitation" and expect women to come flocking.

Tell us more Mw99...

And I know, I know, it's so un-aspie... but you just don't get love by asking for it outright.

Spend some time scoping out the girls here and get to talking with a few if they seem interesting.

Re - the bit I put in bold - OUCH!! ! But yes what everyone else has said, you didn't really say much that was very individual to you?

Lol trust me man, I "learned" the hard way quite a few times that online relationships turn to crap no matter what you do. More than half the time they tease you and put you off in the end, and the other half its because you realize that when you meet them in real life they turn out to be an entirely different person - that you dont like at all. Getting a female to like you isnt nearly as hard as getting them to continue liking you. Just a heads up dude, hate to see you as heartbroken as I always am. Then again I dont have much hope for a real life relationship either so I guess Ill be broken forever.. Maybe you will have more luck than me. Where am I going in this message? Ive been brooding over how much I suck again today so go figure lol.. Just as long as I pick up a buddy just to be friends with along the way I guess that will be good enough. If that would even be possible.