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26 Oct 2007, 7:21 pm

Asked her out online through a message... I hope I can sleep soundly tonight...
And brace myself for whatever response she'll give... :/

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26 Oct 2007, 7:41 pm

samtoo wrote:

Asked her out online through a message... I hope I can sleep soundly tonight...
And brace myself for whatever response she'll give... :/

well done mate!

You did the right thing, no matter what she replies. If you did not ask her out you would feel bad about it and wonder why you didn't do it. You followed your heart now and did the right thing. If she would sat no then you can still be proud of yourself for having been honest and doing what your heart was telling you to do. If she says yes, then happy days

But anyways, you did the right thing!

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26 Oct 2007, 9:56 pm

That last post just made me rofl...

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26 Oct 2007, 10:05 pm

You did the right thing for yourself.

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27 Oct 2007, 3:35 am

Thanks folks. Now I just gotta wait for her response still lol. If she says no it won't be in a nasty way because I'm sure I can trust my instincts enough to go for someone who's pretty nice... ok my ex wasn't but sometimes you make mistakes.

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27 Oct 2007, 5:51 am

Good luck!

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27 Oct 2007, 7:49 am

Thanks people. Still waiting for the reply... lol
Shouldn't hurt too much if she says no though.

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27 Oct 2007, 8:29 am

If she says "no" then just think she's missing out on a great person and it's her loss. If you didn't ask her out you would never know if she likes you and the uncertainty would get on your nerves. So you definitely did the right thing by asking her!

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27 Oct 2007, 10:09 am

Good luck and well done.

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27 Oct 2007, 10:12 am

samtoo wrote:

Still waiting for the reply... lol

Good luck, the waiting will probably be the hardest part. Regardless of what she says, then you will know, and you won't be left wondering about it like you are now.

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27 Oct 2007, 10:29 am

shadexiii wrote:

samtoo wrote:

Still waiting for the reply... lol

Good luck, the waiting will probably be the hardest part. Regardless of what she says, then you will know, and you won't be left wondering about it like you are now.

Yeah... lol

Even if she says no I've grown a close friend... but whether or not my testosterone and aspie + bizarre confidence/mood swings will allow this or not is anyone's guess. :lol:

I sympathise with our kind... for many NT's, they can afford to be a bigger mess than me and they'll still reap the rewards.

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27 Oct 2007, 1:12 pm

Still waiting... lol she ain't been online today as of yet.

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27 Oct 2007, 3:33 pm

Don't wait online until she replies. Get out and go do something to take your mind off it. If you sit there waiting for her, you'll drive yourself nuts.

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27 Oct 2007, 4:37 pm

I already have driven myself nuts. lol :lol:

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27 Oct 2007, 4:39 pm

Well, since you now have over a thousand posts, you could use this time to make a clever title for yourself.

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