What do i do now? someone please help!

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I have got a girlfriend been with her for bout a week now i have AS and she also has some social condition (think she has AS aswell) i have kissed her i tried to make her comfortable around me but she still says she feels nervous, what shall i do to make her feel more comfortable and relaxed around me?

Also i want to have sex with her but i dont think she is ready for it what can i do to make her more relaxed around me?? help please

Hold up on the sex.Wait til shes ready.

strip for her

Has she explained why she's nervous? It may be as simple as asking her what would make her feel more at ease. Just stick with whatever she is comfortable with, for now. A week isn't that long of a relationship. Intimacy takes time to build.

jfberge gave the right answer -- this hasn't been that long of a relationship. She may require more time than most girls to feel comfortable. If you really like her, you'll wait as long as it takes for her to be ready to become more intimate. Beside, this "new" period in a relationship is often the most wonderful part -- getting to know someone, learning to feel comfortable together.

Kris

dont push her with anything, just let her haver her space and let her let you know when she is comfortable. some things take time. A week isnt that long, you cant expect her to be completly comfortable so quickly.