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Hi. I have a close friend now with Aspergers and we have alot alike. Same type of Asperger's and simulair personaliy types as well. Though I'm starting to have deep strong loving emotions for her and I don't know what to do? I don't know if she feels the same way or not. I'm too afriad to ask because she's all I got to a friend that I can understand in this crazy world.

Just ask her!

But would it be too odvious? Because If I Just ask her then I'm gambling.
If she says yes then I will be happier then I ever was before. But if she says no, then I loose all of my self convadence, go into depression and keep having the feelings of wanting to travel to find who my true love really is.

I really would like to ask her,

But I need a clever set up to bring up the subject carefully.

If I just randomly ask "Do you love me", would shock her and she would probably never look at me the same way again.

Though let again, am I going to alow myself to be restrained to taking risks?

I'll ask her tomarrow night on the phone.

_Eric

If you haven't talked with her about how the two of you feel about each other previously, love might be a bit strong of a word just yet.

If you are worried that you might scare her off, then don't put her on the spot and demand to know her feelings, tell her yours. Either she will say she feels the same, or she will say that she doesn't. If she doesn't, at least you know, and that shouldn't mean that you can't still be close friends, so long as you respect her take on the situation.

A deep, strong, loving friendship lasts a lot longer than most "dating" relationships.
That said, give yourself some time before doing anything to change the nature of what already sounds like a wonderful thing. Perhaps she will instigate romance; alternately, with some patience, you will come to a surer conclusion as to whether or not you should try to change things.

Well I feel that everything is working smoothy, though nothing else developing in the friendship. I was thinking of asking her the question "Have you ever had the feeling that you want to know who your true love is? What love is about? Who loves you and whatnot" Kind of that subject and start off from there with a yes or no and just say how confusing it is. I have lightly said how much I care that she's in my life and she aways said the same thing. I've said that I really like her and she feels the same way. Maybe she does like me, she randomly apoligizes to make sure that she didn't anger me so I guess that she cares some how.

Sounds like a good plan.
I like puppets too. Did you know that the video on your website is (disappointingly) no longer available?

On The Eric Works Site? Yeah, I got to update that silly ol thing.

Here's my YouTube profile. I got 9 working videos plus loads of Henson footage gallore.

http://www.youtube.com/profile?user=MuppetPro
_Eric

The puppets are fantastic- did you make all of them? (sorry this is off the original topic)

Oh yes, I've build all of them that appear in the videos. This is from my public access TV show. _Eric

Take it slow, man!