I would like an aspie girfriend, or just someone identical

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27 Nov 2007, 10:38 pm

I would like a girlfriend with aspergers or a female clone of me. I think if I went out with an NT girl, she would gradually be put off by my behavior, I want someone who understands me and I understand them, I don't want to have to put on my "normal" act with a girl, otherwise the relationship wouldn't be real.



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27 Nov 2007, 10:51 pm

I know how you feel. I have a friend of mine who has a congitive impairment (no were not dating - shes more like a sister). Shes my best friend and we get along on a level a lot of people don't understand. I think its because we understand what its like to be seen as different by the world. Shes great at socializing and I'm great at academics. So we help each other out a lot.


I think dating your clone would suck, love is about learning and growing with each other. It would get borring dating yourself - plus the gene pool wouldnet like it either.


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27 Nov 2007, 11:04 pm

TheZach wrote:
I know how you feel. I have a friend of mine who has a congitive impairment (no were not dating - shes more like a sister). Shes my best friend and we get along on a level a lot of people don't understand. I think its because we understand what its like to be seen as different by the world. Shes great at socializing and I'm great at academics. So we help each other out a lot.


I think dating your clone would suck, love is about learning and growing with each other. It would get borring dating yourself - plus the gene pool wouldnet like it either.


I suppose, I definately wanna find someone with the same interests and possibly with some sort of autism.



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27 Nov 2007, 11:06 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:
TheZach wrote:
I know how you feel. I have a friend of mine who has a congitive impairment (no were not dating - shes more like a sister). Shes my best friend and we get along on a level a lot of people don't understand. I think its because we understand what its like to be seen as different by the world. Shes great at socializing and I'm great at academics. So we help each other out a lot.


I think dating your clone would suck, love is about learning and growing with each other. It would get borring dating yourself - plus the gene pool wouldnet like it either.


I suppose, I definately wanna find someone with the same interests and possibly with some sort of autism.


That's the only way to go!

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27 Nov 2007, 11:12 pm

Don't worry about who you find so much... just start interacting with any women.

It's good to have all these standards and things... and know who you are looking for. But when it comes down to it, all this searching for specific qualities ends up seeming like a job search... and your communication starts sounding like a job interview.

It's like... I want this, this this and this... and your potential mate says... well I have this this this and this... plus look at this. Then you think... love... but the other person thinks... 'this guy's kind of boring... nice... but boring.'

And this isn't really how love is formed...

Well, that's my theory right now anyways...


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28 Nov 2007, 2:18 am

I met my female clone a while back.
We anoy eachother to hell due to our uncanny resemblance,
but we're still good friends :P



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28 Nov 2007, 12:58 pm

Pugly wrote:
Don't worry about who you find so much... just start interacting with any women.

It's good to have all these standards and things... and know who you are looking for. But when it comes down to it, all this searching for specific qualities ends up seeming like a job search... and your communication starts sounding like a job interview.

It's like... I want this, this this and this... and your potential mate says... well I have this this this and this... plus look at this. Then you think... love... but the other person thinks... 'this guy's kind of boring... nice... but boring.'

And this isn't really how love is formed...

Well, that's my theory right now anyways...


I would consider myself a lot of things, good and bad. But never boring. Don't judge people who you don't know. That's one of my theory's :wink: