Need some advice...

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I met this girl through my friend's girlfriend and I was instantly attracted to her. I was beginning to like her the more and more we talked. I talked better when I was alone with her, and we talked about many things. I gave her my MSN and she hasn't added me yet and I'm losing sleep over this, I texted message my friend to try and reach her. She said she was busy with a lot of homework and I think that's why but my mind is telling me something else, I dunno.

Should I not worry about this? I asked her to come over my house this weekend again will she follow through? I dunno this worrying stuff is making me lose sleep and I can't sleep to get my mind on my classes.

How long has it been since you gave her your screen name? It is also a pretty busy time of year for anyone in classes. (At least in my experience with schools / colleges in the U.S.) Between classes wrapping up, and finals, and everything else involved, she could be busy, or she could have forgotten to add you even, or forgotten your screen name.

If you asked her to go over to your house again, see how that goes first.

I've given her it on Friday, well she had to see her friend about something and homework so that's why she hasn't added me over the weekend.

Maybe she is a bit wary about you.

if she does not add you within the next few days, forget about her.

Just give it time and don't get excited too quickly. She may feel like she does not know you well enough to move to the next level in your relationship. She could also be telling the truth. Whatever the case, don't stress.

You know what dude, I will take your word for that. If she doesn't add me it will show how much of a person she really is.