I want an aspie girl like the one in Americas NTM to find me

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I want an aspie girl like the one who is participating in the current cycle of America's Next Top Model TO FIND ME and ask me to date/marry her. I'd love to have a girlfriend/wife like Heather. Aspie, beautiful and intelligent. What else can I ask for?

Is that a realistic dream or am I asking for too much?

Last edited by Mw99 on 04 Nov 2007, 9:54 pm, edited 2 times in total.

Who knows what's realistic in this ****** up world...
It probably is possible and yes - I would like someone like that too lol.

We all wish you the best of luck in your search.

Tim

Then again, I'm realistic and realize that for every aspie loser out there, there is a successful aspie somewhere else (maybe he is the head of a technology company), towards whom aspie girls are a lot more like to gravitate.

It's possible. But just like NT love, it'll find ya when you're not looking.

can we post a pic of her? i havent seen the show

My name is also Heather, I also do modeling (alternative pinup style) my portfolio, and I'm too smart for my own good.
I also can't get any dates. I've only had a couple boyfriends and nobody hits on me because I weird people out. So yeah, its not any easier being me. I've kind of given up ever finding someone that I'm attracted to and also get along with well. Ill most likely spend the rest of my life alone.

Mw99 does she necessarily have to be pretty?

I mean would an "average" looking girl be good enough for you or do you want one that looks like a model?

If you do, thats probably the reason right there why you don't have one.




Mysticara- You say that you are too smart for your own good(And you are also a model.) To me, this seems like you are narcistic and that you come across to other people as arrogant.

start by getting rid of that earring in your nose. it doesn't make you look good. all the opposite.

Are aspie women attracted to NT men any moreso than to aspie men? Or do they just get snatched up by NT men first. I'd really like to know......I have to wonder about the true extent of Heather Blumberg's asperger syndrome. Isnt rather curious why they picked an aspie female for a reality TV show and not an aspie male? I have met very few aspie women in person to really be able to say that I have a preferrence. Funny enough I seem to attract bipolar women more than aspie women.

It's hard to tell because what you call "average" might not be what I call "average." At any rate, I don't demand a model. As long as she is not an eyesore, she's ok with me. She must be pleasing to look at, though. Of course, I also need to like her personality type, her way of thinking must be compatible with mine, etc. Am I asking too much or should I settle for the ugliest woman I can find?

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I was joking. Its a phrase, too smart for your own good.
But partly true. When your brain doesn't stop analyzing things it can lead to depression. Sometimes I wish I was an idiot
and didn't think about things as much as I do, like the idiots that seem happy.
Um, my main passion is photography, so I help people out and participate as a model as a hobby. That doesn't mean that I'm narcissistic, thats a stupid/rude/mean thing to say.

My point, why I wrote that, is because I have a lot of problems with social skills, and don't get dates. If someone *IS* interested in me, I trying to show it subtly, I wouldn't even notice I guess. So you cant really say a person with the criteria of being an attractive aspie is like an ideal. I still have no life, accidently offend people, can't keep a regular job, don't have friends. I don't think it would matter if the person potentially interested in me has AS, they would probably give up on me like everyone else does.

Oh. I see right there why you dont have a girlfriend. You're a dickhead. Yeah, like I'd take out my nosering to please YOU. I happen to like it, and many other people like it. Go F**K yourself you pretentious superficial moron. Can I see a photo of you so I can tell you to fix your ugly nose with plastic surgery? That comment was uncalled for. you're just being a mean jerk for no reason, trying to make someone who already has so many people problems feel like crap. Pathetic.

While aspie women and (truly)non-social women are hard to find as a whole, its especially hard to find ones that are both pretty AND single at the same time. Now that I think of it, many of the (few)women who've been seriously interested in Me are women who I didnt find that attractive(physically and thus sexually). I would certainly say that Im picky-and clearly Im not the only one here who's picky as well. But perhaps I'm a lot pickier than I can really afford to be. In other words, I might have to wait a long time before someone who I find really attractive wants to hook up with me.

My problem is not with you, my problem is with the way earrings in people's noses look. Unless those earrings were surgically appended to your body and are now technically considered part of "you," you shouldn't feel offended by my comment. If I showed someone my picture, and they could honestly tell me everything that they found "wrong" with me, I think I'd feel grateful for their feedback. I hate it when you ask someone for feedback and they sugarcoat their answers out of fear they'll offend you if they tell you the truth. That type of feedback is worthless.

Well mysticaria, I personally have no problems with nose piecings . I dont mind piercings or tattoos one bit-but if there are a lot of them on the lips or just below the bottom lip it can make kissing rather difficult .