How to tell if your relationship isn't working out

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1. You and your partner are always fighting, you're arguing.

2. You don't feel good about yourself, you feel negative about yourself like you're not a very good person

3. Your partner forgets your birthday and doesn't seem to care if he made that mistake or not

4. Your partner spends all his time on the computer playing an online computer game and never gets off unless it's bathroom, getting some food or going to bed. You have to kick him off just so you could use the internet but you have to rush and not do your usual things you usually do because your partner is anxious to get back on or he be bugging you to be done with it

5. You and your partner act like you're room mates instead of in a relationship

6. Your partner isn't respecting you by cursing because it bothers you but he/she continues doing it, he/she doesn't stop joking around or being sarcastic and you have told him/her you don't like it so stop doing it so much, your partner hurts you but doesn't seem to care because he/she doesn't apologize when you start crying.

7. You're partner is always begging you to have sex and you don't want to have it but they still keep begging you to do it. You're partner still begs for it after you have told him or her to stop and you don't like it and it makes it look like that is all they are after.


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Uh, is your relationship in difficulty or something? Because this thread reads like one giant cry for help.

I don't think it's a "cry for help." Spokane_Girl, I think you have some great points! I agree with you.

Well in my case an attack with a kitchen knife was a pretty good indication that my relationship was in trouble. All bits are still present and correct but that particular lady is long gone.

Ed Almos

Precisely what I was going to ask.

I, like most of the other people here, am an aspie.

If you want an answer, you'll have to ask a question (sorry)...

Do you want more postings on your list or do you seek other help?

Hope this isn't too insensitive.

You catch her setting fire to a voodoo doll representation of you.

dude, if your never argueing, that's a sign that trouble is there, and it's like a pimple, and it just pops... explodes on you and it's over, if there was never disagreement amongst the both of you, your one... P-whipped so hard, two, living in a disney film

Cadzie wrote:

8. You and your partner have very little, if anything, in common, and are polar opposites on many issues.

9. Your partner constantly cheats on you, and tricks you into doing things that are illegal.

(#9 is why I don't date NTs)

Tim