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18 Jan 2008, 8:18 pm

today I told this girl who wanted to have a fling with me I didn't feel right doing that while she still was committed to her boyfriend
and she almost blocked me
for thinking I was doing the right thing and being a gentlemen I get shat on :roll: what the f**k is wrong with this god damn world

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18 Jan 2008, 8:27 pm

girls like as*holes, this is nothing new. try going to a bar and pulling a chair out for a girl. you'll get looked at funny

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18 Jan 2008, 8:29 pm

f*****g b***h :roll:
this makes me not want any woman
and firmly believe that there is no right girl out there for me

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18 Jan 2008, 9:38 pm

what a hooker

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18 Jan 2008, 9:39 pm

thanks guys for making me feel better

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18 Jan 2008, 9:57 pm

she's completely in the wrong, kilroy

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18 Jan 2008, 9:58 pm

richardbenson wrote:

girls like as*holes, this is nothing new. try going to a bar and pulling a chair out for a girl. you'll get looked at funny

Smart girls like gentlemen.

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18 Jan 2008, 10:02 pm

well I am rather glad I didn't sleep with her
not just for me not wanting to be the other man
but because I want a relationship-not just f**k buddies :roll:

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18 Jan 2008, 10:03 pm

i once had bf that dumped me and so he could start dating a gf who dumped her bf (a friend of mine)... and they had the nerve to try and set us up (me and my friend).... like a switcharoo would work.

wtf.

people are messed up.

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18 Jan 2008, 10:04 pm

yeah...
some people are really dumb :roll:

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18 Jan 2008, 10:17 pm

Kilroy wrote:

well I am rather glad I didn't sleep with her
not just for me not wanting to be the other man
but because I want a relationship-not just f**k buddies :roll:

Sounds like she wanted the opposite. ;/

You're much better than that I'm sure. No need to feel down about it, some people just suck.

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18 Jan 2008, 10:20 pm

some people do suck, yes

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18 Jan 2008, 10:53 pm

Kilroy wrote:

today I told this girl who wanted to have a fling with me I didn't feel right doing that while she still was committed to her boyfriend
and she almost blocked me

for thinking I was doing the right thing and being a gentlemen I get shat on :roll:

what the f**k is wrong with this god damn world

How long did you know she had a boyfriend in all this? She's playing some clandestine shite and the trouble is you kind of led her on, I'd imagine that's what she's feeling raw about - the waste of time and opportunity for her. Your backing out on personal ethics grounds also was probably an unwanted reminder of that nature of what she was doing. If you'd have a hard time looking at yourself in the mirror and liking yourself for it if you had followed through, its no loss to here. Kinda funny though, and yeah, sucks to be her right about now.

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18 Jan 2008, 10:55 pm

I met her threw her boyfriend

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18 Jan 2008, 10:56 pm

You should give her boyfriend a heads up. She obviously does not want him anymore, and is going to cheat on him in the future. It would be good to tell him about it. However, it might ruin your friendship with him. So, if your willing to ruin your friendship to help your buddy, go for it.

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18 Jan 2008, 10:57 pm

na...he is rather ignorant and brought it upon himself

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