I wish I had a man that Loved me

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My name is Kate Smith, I am 43 yrs old , and my email address is [email protected]


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I want a real man who will drown me in his Love for Me. I would like someone to Love me. I do not be treated right at home. No one at home wants me or loves me. I would Like to be shown how to live a nice goed life.

Maybe you should get a dog instead...they are loyal, good companions and love you unconditionally.

How are you defining "a real man"?

A very loving kind of man. A man that gives some affection to me. A man that is open hearted and loving and warm and kind. A man is someone who makes you feel good, even when you are down. A man who would drown me in a world full of love. A man that would tell me good things to make me feel good. That is how I Describe a Real Man

shoot.

Take the best care of yourself first, and then you can take care of others as well as you care for yourself. Give what you take and have more to give than you take. Listen. Learn. Be light hearted. Be brazen but not pushy. Know when to back off and when to assist. Know who you are, what you believe in and make sure he is cut from the same cloth. Be adventurous, not reckless. But just be you!

I am Sorry and I hope that I can do better. I wanted another chance at life. I wanted a new beginning. I thought I can have that new beginning and start all over again. I thought I would be deserving tht chance to have a new beginning and to change my environment so that I can be around positive kind of people. That would help me out a whole lot.

Kate,

Really, truly, "be careful what you wish for".

I have travelled the road you are on myself, perhaps not so bluntly, more subtly, (except perhaps at first) between the ages of 13 and 43, and it never, ever works...

Not even when I found someone, as desperate as I was for the same kind of reasons offering an whole new life, in an whole new country I honestly came to love...

*He* felt like a life sentence, and nothing would have been worth it.

Love doesn't work that way, in fact, I suspect it is ONLY when you don't need anyone for anything but themselves that you can truly love, and even them, there is no guarantee they will feel the same, or that you'll be able to handle it.

You are RIGHT to want a new beginning, and you can do it for yourself, and after you have, you may not even want, or need a man any more...

Good luck

M

I would be very careful. I think most men who say they want to take care of a woman, really just want to control them.

Hello Kate .Wanting love is something a strong will. I don’t think that anyone can tell a story that could possible put us off wanting someone. Needing someone is beyond having someone to talk to, sex, romance, or anything that makes life convenient. So there is little point in listening to those who think that it is possible to be happy by yourself. However, if you believe deep down that it might be possible, then it is surely possible.


The best way forwards is to work hard towards finding someone special, the same way that a sports man heads towards his goal with total focus. There are so many things in our lives that compromise us reaching our goal. For me it is the TV, it just consumes time and gives very little back.

Losing someone weight nice cloths would be a positive step in the right direction. Guys often care highly about looks. Sometimes I wish sometimes woman was like this, it would surely beets trying to be more NT. Hell I would look like alpha male beefcake on steroids. For losing weight, if you train like an athlete preparing for the Olympics, only then you can be sure you have done the best you can. Maybe in a few months time, you might be more attractive the ‘picture of you in fron’t of the car’. I found you very cute in that photo.

Is that boy your son? If yes , then why you need the BS of love? You have a healthy hyper son , a nice car , a nice house , a nice garden (I assume) and a cute dog. I say that you are lucky in your life , remember other people die without have any of these things. So be happy for having these things instead of nagging , I personally envy you for having a son and these stuff because I might have nothing of these things if I stay living where I am now ,not to mention that I probably would never get married.

You need to lose a lot of weight , you are so overweighted , not for the sake of love's BS but for the sake of your own health ...you seriously need to visit a nutrition specialist if you didn't do it already .Do this, if not for yourself then do it for your son because you won't be able to raise if something bad happen to your health.

You might have a little hope for finding a man that loves you but never build high hopes in finding one , single moms of your age are not what men drool over and not even the women who suffer from obesity.