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12 Jan 2008, 1:59 pm

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12 Jan 2008, 2:03 pm

Technically, most people consider those acts to be sex though...

also, no one really cares if your virginity is intact or not these days. Mine is, but not by choice (I can't get women)...



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12 Jan 2008, 2:07 pm

ToadOfSteel wrote:
Technically, most people consider those acts to be sex though...

also, no one really cares if your virginity is intact or not these days. Mine is, but not by choice (I can't get women)...


Often there is a large gap between technicality and practical reality.



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12 Jan 2008, 2:07 pm

Ask youself this: "If my significant other performed oral sex on another person, would I consider it sex then?"

Of course it's sex. From a matter of virginity's standpoint, however, it's a bit more sketchy. It all depends on how the individual defines sex.


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12 Jan 2008, 2:08 pm

Yes, but I consider holding hands to be sex.


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12 Jan 2008, 2:12 pm

siuan wrote:
Ask youself this: "If my significant other performed oral sex on another person, would I consider it sex then?"

Of course it's sex. From a matter of virginity's standpoint, however, it's a bit more sketchy. It all depends on how the individual defines sex.

I would consider it a form of infidelity; not neccessarily sex but being of a sexual nature.



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12 Jan 2008, 2:13 pm

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Yes, but I consider holding hands to be sex.

That's ridiculous! Then by definition I had sex with 3 boys at the age of 5! lol



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12 Jan 2008, 2:15 pm

purplesky wrote:
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Yes, but I consider holding hands to be sex.

That's ridiculous! Then by definition I had sex with 3 boys at the age of 5! lol


I kinda know MrMark means, like a connection, mind you if that was true i'm gonna get locked up to :lol:



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12 Jan 2008, 2:21 pm

purplesky wrote:
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Yes, but I consider holding hands to be sex.

That's ridiculous! Then by definition I had sex with 3 boys at the age of 5! lol

Children have sex.


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12 Jan 2008, 2:22 pm

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purplesky wrote:
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Yes, but I consider holding hands to be sex.

That's ridiculous! Then by definition I had sex with 3 boys at the age of 5! lol


I kinda know MrMark means, like a connection, mind you if that was true i'm gonna get locked up to :lol:


lol. Do you think he means connection as in love or connection as in bonding with a member of the opposite sex?



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12 Jan 2008, 2:28 pm

I mean, touching in a pleasant way, beyond a handshake or hug. I don't give massages to people I'm not intimate with because I consider it so sexual. I give really good massage.


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12 Jan 2008, 2:29 pm

purplesky wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
purplesky wrote:
MrMark wrote:
Yes, but I consider holding hands to be sex.

That's ridiculous! Then by definition I had sex with 3 boys at the age of 5! lol


I kinda know MrMark means, like a connection, mind you if that was true i'm gonna get locked up to :lol:


lol. Do you think he means connection as in love or connection as in bonding with a member of the opposite sex?


Not sure abot that one! :) Come on Mark, tell all!!



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12 Jan 2008, 2:37 pm

Shouldn't this be in the "Adult" section?


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12 Jan 2008, 2:38 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Shouldn't this be in the "Adult" section?

Too explicit?


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12 Jan 2008, 3:42 pm

siuan wrote:
Ask youself this: "If my significant other performed oral sex on another person, would I consider it sex then?"

Kissing isn't sex, but I'd consider that cheating too. I don't think of oral or manual sex as being sex, although of course it's an important and intimate thing...



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12 Jan 2008, 3:48 pm

Their not sex but sexual acts.

If your asking if it's counts the same, that depends on the context.