20 Jan 2008, 7:41 pm
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20 Jan 2008, 7:43 pm
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It was disappointing. Based on my limited knowledge of social goings-on, I thought I was going to a place that is considered trendy and where young people go. Instead I witnessed the disgusting sight of 30-year-old women trying to make themselves look 20: way too much make-up and clothes that definitely aren't flattering for their figure. I circled around one of the two bars I "patronized" trying to see if there were any women I would be half-willing to talk to (I wasn't really expecting to find anything more than short-term anyway). I eventually made a half-hearted attempt at conversation with some or other girl, but I didn't care for it, so I left soon thereafter.
(I mainly went because TV and movies perpetuate the notion that nightclubs and bars are the places young people go to meet persons of the opposite sex for liaisons. I figured, being sexually in need, and bored with nothing much to do anyway, there was no harm in giving it a shot.)
I really need to formulate more ideas of places to go to meet attractive, available, interesting young women.
(I mainly went because TV and movies perpetuate the notion that nightclubs and bars are the places young people go to meet persons of the opposite sex for liaisons. I figured, being sexually in need, and bored with nothing much to do anyway, there was no harm in giving it a shot.)
I really need to formulate more ideas of places to go to meet attractive, available, interesting young women.
try going to a powerchair dealers office
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20 Jan 2008, 7:52 pm
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20 Jan 2008, 7:55 pm
pakled wrote:
it also depends on the bar. The places you're looking for are likely there, but you have to ask around to find the 'hip' clubs. Clubs are bars with dancing. Bars are where people drink. Look in the yellow pages (online or not), or maybe some web sites might have what you're looking for.
also the thing is you might be going to the sleaze ball bars...
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20 Jan 2008, 8:13 pm
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20 Jan 2008, 8:14 pm
NeantHumain wrote:
Strapples wrote:
pakled wrote:
it also depends on the bar. The places you're looking for are likely there, but you have to ask around to find the 'hip' clubs. Clubs are bars with dancing. Bars are where people drink. Look in the yellow pages (online or not), or maybe some web sites might have what you're looking for.
also the thing is you might be going to the sleaze ball bars...
Maybe, but I didn't think they were supposed to be (although trends like that can change so quickly). St. Louis has two areas that are particularly known for their nightlife: Washington Avenue and Laclede's Landing. I tried the former (although honestly I didn't visit every place on that street, but I figured two was a representative sample).
personally i think the word bar screams sleazy... may as well go find a hot powerchair dealer chick
my powerchair dealer for example... damn. shoulda took a photo when we were there for my castings...
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20 Jan 2008, 8:17 pm
Coffee shops are less sleazy. Plus it is easier to sit with a book or laptop if you need a break from socializing or an excuse not to. (I like props 
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20 Jan 2008, 8:17 pm
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Coffee shops are less sleazy. Plus it is easier to sit with a book or laptop if you need a break from socializing or an excuse not to. (I like props )
)props are great... OH OH OH!! !! borders books is a great place... lots of neurodiverse people in those kind of places...
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20 Jan 2008, 8:24 pm
20 Jan 2008, 8:46 pm
Strapples wrote:
riverotter wrote:
Coffee shops are less sleazy. Plus it is easier to sit with a book or laptop if you need a break from socializing or an excuse not to. (I like props )
)props are great... OH OH OH!! !! borders books is a great place... lots of neurodiverse people in those kind of places...
I go to Borders a lot, but I see more middle-aged and elderly women there than women my age. Most of the young women are high schoolers who apparently are studying for some test (last time I remember seeing a lot of high schoolers, it was around finals time). I wonder where the women between the ages of 20 and 25 spend their free time.
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20 Jan 2008, 8:48 pm
NeantHumain wrote:
Strapples wrote:
riverotter wrote:
Coffee shops are less sleazy. Plus it is easier to sit with a book or laptop if you need a break from socializing or an excuse not to. (I like props )
)props are great... OH OH OH!! !! borders books is a great place... lots of neurodiverse people in those kind of places...
I go to Borders a lot, but I see more middle-aged and elderly women there than women my age. Most of the young women are high schoolers who apparently are studying for some test (last time I remember seeing a lot of high schoolers, it was around finals time). I wonder where the women between the ages of 20 and 25 spend their free time.
uhm... well... if you dont mind going out with a girl with CP then you might want to hang around a powerchair dealers office...
hang around the hospitals if your interested in younger nursing students
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20 Jan 2008, 8:57 pm
20 Jan 2008, 9:19 pm
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20 Jan 2008, 9:21 pm
NeantHumain wrote:
riverotter wrote:
NeantHumain wrote:
I wonder where the women between the ages of 20 and 25 spend their free time.
Try a coffee place that is not a chain!
You live in St Louis- aren't there some Route 66 cool places around there? Historic neon signs and stuff from before the Starbucks era?
Yeah, I don't drink coffee either, so I never actively sought out such places. No, there really isn't much Route 66 stuff around here except a few little signs on some of the roads that say "Historic Route 66" (the roads are known better by other names nowadays). Honestly, I don't find la femme bohème any more attractive than the bar fly. These types are generally interested in things like theater, ballet, the symphony, musicals, and art exhibitions (none of which particularly appeal to me although I tried to come off as l'artiste briefly in college because I had seen clips of movies where the artist attracts beautiful women and then has earth-shattering sex with them, which struck me as appealing).
well then im out of suggestions...
im sorry mine are so lame...
excuse me while i go look for a new girlfriend at the powerchair dealers office
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20 Jan 2008, 9:21 pm
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20 Jan 2008, 9:23 pm
riverotter wrote:
If it is only sex you want, try the Craigslist "casual encounters" section.
I can't believe I just suggested that.
Forget this information immediately.
I can't believe I just suggested that.
Forget this information immediately.
Oy Vey!
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