Panicking! Old friend coming over in 3 minutes!

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AHH! Ok. So like, there is this high school friend that I totally have a crush on. I don't get to see her much since we graduated, only about once a year. And last night I made a convoluted alcohol-driven plan to try and seduce her when we are hanging out (in 3 minutes) today.

I have no idea what the f**k I was thinking, or what's going on. But I can't rub the scent of cologne off now, and I think something bad is going to happen... Hrm... Oh screw my life to hell.

I blame my brother's girlfriend that was at the party last night. She convinced me that I should try to seduce my friend -- because she and my brother were friends for like 5 years before they started going out. But. But. She's a liar -.- This will end in ruin.

There isn't any time to wish me luck -- I'll get back to you all with a status update later tonight or tomorrow or something.

I think I need more alcohol...

Good luck man, alcohol ain't the answer though!

There is so much awesomeness in this post. The poll alone is a riot. Do let us know how it went!

Lol everything went fine. I don't know why I was panicking though. She's actually involved with someone at the moment but that doesn't mean I can't secretly try to get involved with her in the future.

1) When we hugged at first sight she immediately said "Wow you smell good, what are you wearing?" lol

2) She's coming over later in the week and we are going to drink a bit, she expressed interest in staying over so neither of us had to worry about driving. Problem:
2a) I was considering it would be fair and logical to tell her something along the lines of "Sam look, if you want to drink and stay over that's fine with me but I thought you should know that I'm attracted to you. However my attraction is based on our friendship, which leads me to believe that I would never do anything to compromise said friendship and that I totally respect the relationship that you are in now."

Or should I say nothing? The problem is that I like being honest -.- but then there is honest ! And way too honest!

Alright -- any more input though?

Say something and potentially make fool of self & have her change her mind? Or secretly desire her while respecting her and let everything just go.

No I don't officially write. I write many many short stories, essays, etc blah blah. Never published, rarely shown. I'm working on a series of fabels now that I think I would like to have noticed by a newspaper (university or regional, I don't care) but on the other hand I don't know what to do about it.

I need more input!

Honesty = Good if Honesty = Good Effective Communication.

That = Good Effective Communication. I approve and adore.

Good enough for me!

If anybody responds to this topic (it will send me an e-mail notification) I'll be sure to post back with what happened. I will probably forget this topic exists without the e-mail reminder.

I forgot what I was typing three times before because I was reminded that I forgot my coat in my car.

Potential other outcomes were:
I will probably forget my coat in my car.
I will probably forget my car.
I will forget me.

And then I remembered what I was actually typing

Well, I'm interested to know how it went.

alright, sorry for the very belated response. Here is what is going on. She canceled at the last minute and we put it off for 'next Saturday'. And then 'next Saturday' was no good because she thought I meant 'friday night'. Friday nights, I work, so it wasn't good. So we made arrangements for Tuesday night (now).

Basically, she is half passed out behind me on my bed. everything is going ok. the alcohol is making her touchy, but it isn't anything sexual -- besides, i found out she is involved with someone, so that turns it into a non-issue pretty much. My friend was telling me (female) that I should take any opportunity I get, but frankly, I don't think I'll persue anything that happens. I donno. my eyelids are heavy, ttyl life <3333

No, don't pass out yet...

Tell her that you have a crush on her...

If you have a problem later, you can blame it on the alcohol, but at least you got your message through and she might consider you when she dumps her boyfriend.

lol things have progressed from her half-passed out to half throwing up in the bathroom. She didn't realize I have a greater tolerance than her -- it hasn't been all peaches and cream here. I'll keep you posted <33

On the next episode: We are going to go a half a block down to throw a potato with a nasty note on it on the lawn of a girl who's face looks like a potato.

We are as*holes.

ok yes.

so now that I'm more sober, I'll finish the story. Sort of. And yes, we ditched the potato onto her lawn.

Basically we had a great time. I *DIDN'T* Tell her I was attracted to her, because my best friend talked me out of it: She told me, that my reason for wanting to tell her (I.e. I might do something stupid) is illogical, because I never. NEVER. Do 'stupid' things. It hit me like a ton of bricks. Because it's true. I never do anything that doesn't have a calculated response with 100% certainty. (Not in this category of life anyway, and yes, it causes problems, but that's a different story)

So we ended up just hanging out, turning Mario Party into a drinking game, cooking. She slept in my bed, I slept on my floor, talked a lot, etc.

I don't know if I mentioned it in a previous post but it turns out she's involved with someone, so I'm glad everything turned out the way it did. Because she is going back to school in another state, we made tentative plans to see each other again during the next break.

I am happy with it.

It could only have been better in a really sick and otherwise warped perception of reality lol

Having female friends sometimes works. I hope your friendship turns out well.