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18 Mar 2007, 3:36 am

I have to post about this somewhere, and the other message boards I go to would just bag me for it. Why is it that war games and violence and depressive speech are okay, but being positive and sharing the love with friends, family, boy/girl friends is almost taboo????

I feel like I've made a huge step. I've asked a guy I liked to the movies. And yesterday I had a great time. We held hands and hugged and kissed (EEEEK!) and I feel like I found someone who won't mind me being quirky. He's not the hottest man alive, but he is good-looking and presents himself nicely. He's also a computer geek (hee hee!), and he's just awesome!

And we're going on another date!

I just feel like conquering that fear of rejection was worth it a lot. Also, facing the fear of actually going out in public with friends (dance classes) was also worth it

I think (THINK) I might have a little crush... :D :) :D



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18 Mar 2007, 3:40 am

I congratulate you.



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18 Mar 2007, 9:46 am

Kezzstar wrote:
I have to post about this somewhere, and the other message boards I go to would just bag me for it. Why is it that war games and violence and depressive speech are okay, but being positive and sharing the love with friends, family, boy/girl friends is almost taboo????

I feel like I've made a huge step. I've asked a guy I liked to the movies. And yesterday I had a great time. We held hands and hugged and kissed (EEEEK!) and I feel like I found someone who won't mind me being quirky. He's not the hottest man alive, but he is good-looking and presents himself nicely. He's also a computer geek (hee hee!), and he's just awesome!

And we're going on another date!

I just feel like conquering that fear of rejection was worth it a lot. Also, facing the fear of actually going out in public with friends (dance classes) was also worth it

I think (THINK) I might have a little crush... :D :) :D


Congrats!...

i hope i will find someone to love me one day.... 24 years down, 50 odd to go (sigh)


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18 Mar 2007, 3:36 pm

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
I have to post about this somewhere, and the other message boards I go to would just bag me for it. Why is it that war games and violence and depressive speech are okay, but being positive and sharing the love with friends, family, boy/girl friends is almost taboo????

I feel like I've made a huge step. I've asked a guy I liked to the movies. And yesterday I had a great time. We held hands and hugged and kissed (EEEEK!) and I feel like I found someone who won't mind me being quirky. He's not the hottest man alive, but he is good-looking and presents himself nicely. He's also a computer geek (hee hee!), and he's just awesome!

And we're going on another date!

I just feel like conquering that fear of rejection was worth it a lot. Also, facing the fear of actually going out in public with friends (dance classes) was also worth it

I think (THINK) I might have a little crush... :D :) :D


Congrats!...

i hope i will find someone to love me one day.... 24 years down, 50 odd to go (sigh)


Thanks. And don't worry, I was in your position...but I kept my head up and my eyes open, and lookie!

LOL I'm giggly now.

And thanks Flagg.



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18 Mar 2007, 7:19 pm

Kezzstar wrote:
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
I have to post about this somewhere, and the other message boards I go to would just bag me for it. Why is it that war games and violence and depressive speech are okay, but being positive and sharing the love with friends, family, boy/girl friends is almost taboo????

I feel like I've made a huge step. I've asked a guy I liked to the movies. And yesterday I had a great time. We held hands and hugged and kissed (EEEEK!) and I feel like I found someone who won't mind me being quirky. He's not the hottest man alive, but he is good-looking and presents himself nicely. He's also a computer geek (hee hee!), and he's just awesome!

And we're going on another date!

I just feel like conquering that fear of rejection was worth it a lot. Also, facing the fear of actually going out in public with friends (dance classes) was also worth it

I think (THINK) I might have a little crush... :D :) :D


Congrats!...

i hope i will find someone to love me one day.... 24 years down, 50 odd to go (sigh)


Thanks. And don't worry, I was in your position...but I kept my head up and my eyes open, and lookie!

LOL I'm giggly now.

And thanks Flagg.


How old are you now then?


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18 Mar 2007, 8:47 pm

Congrats. And way to go, taking the initiative. Image


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19 Mar 2007, 1:34 am

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
Kezzstar wrote:
I have to post about this somewhere, and the other message boards I go to would just bag me for it. Why is it that war games and violence and depressive speech are okay, but being positive and sharing the love with friends, family, boy/girl friends is almost taboo????

I feel like I've made a huge step. I've asked a guy I liked to the movies. And yesterday I had a great time. We held hands and hugged and kissed (EEEEK!) and I feel like I found someone who won't mind me being quirky. He's not the hottest man alive, but he is good-looking and presents himself nicely. He's also a computer geek (hee hee!), and he's just awesome!

And we're going on another date!

I just feel like conquering that fear of rejection was worth it a lot. Also, facing the fear of actually going out in public with friends (dance classes) was also worth it

I think (THINK) I might have a little crush... :D :) :D


Congrats!...

i hope i will find someone to love me one day.... 24 years down, 50 odd to go (sigh)


Thanks. And don't worry, I was in your position...but I kept my head up and my eyes open, and lookie!

LOL I'm giggly now.

And thanks Flagg.


How old are you now then?


I'm 18 and 4 months old.

LOL.

Thanks Xenon. It was nerve racking and I nearly threw up afterwards, but well worth it.

I'm all giggly just thinking about him. I'll see him on Wednesday at dancing and my friends will be there and hee hee hee!



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19 Mar 2007, 6:14 pm

ZOMG! <3 :D Congrats, you!

He sounds like a real sweetheart ;)



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19 Mar 2007, 11:43 pm

Good work, Kezzstar!

Way to go. Thanks for sharing the positive news. It's good for all of us to vent, but sharing the victories when we take action is great.

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20 Mar 2007, 1:34 am

Hee hee hee,

he sent me a text message telling me he had a good time on our date, and that he couldn't wait to see me.

And he signed it 'love!! !!'



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20 Mar 2007, 2:21 am

^___^ Omg! You're making me giggly too! :lol:



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20 Mar 2007, 5:25 am

sounds like things are going well...

...make sure he treats you right and doesnt make you rush into things (ack!... i sound like my dad talking to my sis 8O )


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20 Mar 2007, 5:30 am

Yeah, giving advice does that.



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20 Mar 2007, 7:21 am

Congrats! Great to hear! It's these love stories that keep me coming back to WP. ^_^
Getting giggly over a crush, it doesn't get old. Heehee. :P
I myself have found a crush that MAY like me. A somewhat unreliable source said she likes me, but there may be truth to it. If so, I've got my bases lined up for me!
Here's to hoping us Aspies can achieve what you have! :D


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20 Mar 2007, 10:21 am

Amen!


alls i need to do is find someone who likes me.... actually harder than it sounds :?


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20 Mar 2007, 3:15 pm

Aspie_for_the_Lord wrote:
Amen!


alls i need to do is find someone who likes me.... actually harder than it sounds :?


It'll bump into you when you least expect it.

Happened that way to me.

And I will make sure he is good to me.....usually when confronted with a sleaze etc I get violent.