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01 Feb 2008, 2:36 am

Am I wrong in thinking that I might be able to find a girlfriend here? It is called Love and Dating. :? I have never had a real date because, I can't seem to relate with non-aspies/NT's. I don't understand them and they don't understand me. :( Thats why I thought this would be the perfect place to look. I am sure there are women here with the same problem. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. :? Thanks for any input/response.



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01 Feb 2008, 2:40 am

Wellllllllllllll, this isnt an online dating site. Keep that in mind as some women here do not wish to be "hit on".
On the other hand I suppose it its not entirely impossible either.



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01 Feb 2008, 2:46 am

jawbrodt wrote:
Am I wrong in thinking that I might be able to find a girlfriend here? It is called Love and Dating. :? I have never had a real date because, I can't seem to relate with non-aspies/NT's. I don't understand them and they don't understand me. :( Thats why I thought this would be the perfect place to look. I am sure there are women here with the same problem. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. :? Thanks for any input/response.



GOOD LUCK!! !! ! There aren't many aspies in the world, and there are even fewer aspies on this site, and there are even fewer aspies on this site that live anywhere near you, and there are even fewer aspies on this site that live anywhere near year that are single and there even fewer aspies on this site that live anywhere near year that are single and the opposite sex. Again, GOOD LUCK!! !!



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01 Feb 2008, 3:03 am

jawbrodt wrote:
Am I wrong in thinking that I might be able to find a girlfriend here? It is called Love and Dating. :? I have never had a real date because, I can't seem to relate with non-aspies/NT's. I don't understand them and they don't understand me. :( Thats why I thought this would be the perfect place to look. I am sure there are women here with the same problem. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. :? Thanks for any input/response.


Post your profile and pic here: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf62-0-1245.html



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01 Feb 2008, 3:10 am

LVBen wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
Am I wrong in thinking that I might be able to find a girlfriend here? It is called Love and Dating. :? I have never had a real date because, I can't seem to relate with non-aspies/NT's. I don't understand them and they don't understand me. :( Thats why I thought this would be the perfect place to look. I am sure there are women here with the same problem. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. :? Thanks for any input/response.



GOOD LUCK!! !! ! There aren't many aspies in the world, and there are even fewer aspies on this site, and there are even fewer aspies on this site that live anywhere near you, and there are even fewer aspies on this site that live anywhere near year that are single and there even fewer aspies on this site that live anywhere near year that are single and the opposite sex. Again, GOOD LUCK!! !!


Myself being a guy who has never had a real relationship, I have nothing to lose. The chances are slim but, at least there is a chance. Better than what I had before this. Thanks for your concern.



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01 Feb 2008, 3:13 am

juliekitty wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
Am I wrong in thinking that I might be able to find a girlfriend here? It is called Love and Dating. :? I have never had a real date because, I can't seem to relate with non-aspies/NT's. I don't understand them and they don't understand me. :( Thats why I thought this would be the perfect place to look. I am sure there are women here with the same problem. Maybe I'm wrong, I don't know. :? Thanks for any input/response.


Post your profile and pic here: http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf62-0-1245.html


Sorry, no picture yet. I am working on it.



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01 Feb 2008, 3:16 am

I think the love and dating section is more of a place to ask and give advice :)



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01 Feb 2008, 3:31 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I think the love and dating section is more of a place to ask and give advice :)



Yes, I think you are right. :( Oh well it was worth a shot. I haven't given up completely though.



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01 Feb 2008, 3:35 am

D1nk0 wrote:
Wellllllllllllll, this isnt an online dating site. Keep that in mind as some women here do not wish to be "hit on".
On the other hand I suppose it its not entirely impossible either.


I haven't hit on anyone yet. I'm really shy and would probably wait for the woman to initiate. :oops: Fat chance, right. :roll: You never know, at least it gives me a glimmer of hope. One can only wish.



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01 Feb 2008, 8:47 am

www.aspieaffection.com


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01 Feb 2008, 11:07 am

jawbrodt wrote:
I'm really shy and would probably wait for the woman to initiate.


eep. the aspie dating mantra.

jawbrodt wrote:
Fat chance, right.


It's quite the long shot, I'm afraid.



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01 Feb 2008, 11:49 am

juliekitty wrote:
jawbrodt wrote:
I'm really shy and would probably wait for the woman to initiate.


eep. the aspie dating mantra.

jawbrodt wrote:
Fat chance, right.


It's quite the long shot, I'm afraid.



That's alright, I've been alone for 33 years. I'm used to it. :)